By: Jessica & Lee Founders of Diskret_Adult_Life ( BBW Sex )

 

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Who ever said BBW couldn’t have amazing sex?! While our media often portrays slim couples, it doesn’t mean BBW everywhere aren’t having mind-blowing sex! Unfortunately, the main constraint for thicker women is finding comfortable and satisfying new sex positions.

 

Its time to crack open this mystery and talk with some BBW to find out what sex positions truly work for them along with what to avoid. Our main goal is to give at least 1 or 2 amazing new sex position for you to try! These proven sex positions will help satisfy your man like never, along with leading to some of the most intense full body orgasms of your life!

 

Sex Tips For BBW

 

Lets start with some basic tips to help make your BBW sex positions feel even better! Let’s face it nearly every couple has one if not both people on the pleasantly plump side, so why not bring the most pleasure possible without letting this get in the way?

 

#1 – Lube, Lube, and more Lube:

 

Lube is often overlooked with all couples, but for thicker couples it really helps smooth things out. Get yourself a great water-based lube that will wash off of clothes, sheets, towels, and yourself easily.

 

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Lube up your clitoral and vaginal area along with his genitals. I always say there is no such thing as “too much lube” however it can decrease sensation for him. If he ends up lasting too long in bed, try using slightly less lube next time.

 

If you enjoy anal play or anal sex, lube is a necessity. The rectum cannot produce “natural” lubricate like the vagina and you should really always use lube with any anal play for safe and pleasurable sex.

#2 – Use a wedge or sex pillow:

 

A sex pillow can help BBW in a huge way! While it limits you a little on what sex positions you can do, it really helps support the body. Sex should not be uncomfortable, a sex pillow can support your stomach, back, legs, or upper body.

 

A sex pillow will also prevent you from sinking so far into the bed. Giving your partner more access to do what they please!

 

#3 – Sex Positions for bbw

 

Sex positions for bbw can make all the difference in the world. While one sex position can make you feel cramped, overheated, and fatigued… Another sex position can allow you to focus on what matters the most, pleasure and your partner!

 

#4 – Use Sex Toys For More Explosive Sex

 

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Sex toys are not just for the slim couples having wild and crazy sex. Sex toys are being used by BBW and thicker couples all the time for some of the most mind-altering pleasure possible!

 

While sex can be a workout it often isn’t meant to go on for hours, that’s where sex toys come in. You can get yourself off or a partner in a very short amount of time and really ramp up your sex life!

 

If you climax before a partner or vis versa, a sex toy is an amazing way to make sure you both end deeply satisfied! They also make sex toys to keep him harder for longer, or get her off in a matter of 90 seconds or less!

 

#5 – Don’t forget about oral sex

 

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Oral sex can be a great way to substitute for penetration if penetration is difficult for you. It doesn’t mean you always have to go down on him and then he goes down on you…

 

You can use oral sex for incredible foreplay, get each other halfway to climax before you even start penetration. This will reduce the amount of time before you orgasm.

 

Another way is to use oral sex to finish each other off. Let’s say he got off but you didn’t… You’ve both been going at it awhile and your exhausted. Take a short break and let him go down on you to complete the orgasmic cycle for the both of you! After all, its never fair to leave person completely hanging!

 

The Best Sex Positions For BBW:

 

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Now that we covered some useful sex tips, lets get into the best sex positions for BBW. These sex positions will help you both experience insane pleasure that leads to longer, more intense orgasms.

 

#1 The Scissor Lift

 

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One of the key requirements for great sex is making sure everyone is comfortable. Communication is the first step, tell your partner if you are uncomfortable and look for solutions to adjust. Its always more difficult to orgasm if you have this annoying pain your back, hip, or leg!

 

This is why the Scissor Lift position is so nice. Your legs can be stretched out, your comfortably on your back and giving him full access for easy penetration. It doesn’t require you to bend, twist, or contort your body into any awkward sex positions.

 

Just remember most sex positions for BBW can be enhanced by adding a pillow support under your lower back. This will prop your hips and butt up, making it even easier to align with him on his knees. You can also prop pillows on the outside of your “V” shaped legs. This will help support your legs from falling to far apart.

 

#2 Missionary Reinvented

 

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Think of missionary but with the man on his hands and knees. This allows him to use his legs to support his lower body weight and brace himself in a comfortable position. He adjusts how far he wants to bend his knees depending on how plus size his belly is. The larger either partner is, the more he can bend his knees to accommodate it.

 

Supporting himself on his hands can be tasking even for those in great shape, but a simple adjustment of dropping to his forearms will allow him to rest comfortably for a longer duration of time.

 

Now you can be up close and personal with your partner, without the stomach in the way. This is great for making good eye contact, kissing, and talking dirty to your partner in close quarters! Now you can feel the closeness of your partner without feeling squashed!

 

#3 Reverse Cowgirl

 

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Reverse cowgirl is a super sexy position for every couple, no matter what your size is! You likely already know the view is incredible for him, but it works great for both of you. For couples who have larger bellies the reverse cowgirl works wonders. The BBW can lean slightly forward away from his belly, and since she is facing away from him, her belly is no concern either.

 

This allows for comfortable and deep penetration. The BBW can control the angle, depth, and speed of each pleasurable stroke! Don’t forget it also leaves her hands free and great access to good clitoral stimulation too!

 

If you are dealing with a height difference, try throwing a pillow in for leverage. A pillow under your legs can make it easier to ride him into an orgasmic state of shock and awe!

 

#4 Leaning Doggy

 

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It’s time to take the doggy sex position which is great for BBW to the next level. Sure you can do it in bed and its great for larger couples who want deeper penetration, but now its time to try it with a twist!

 

Go to the couch or kitchen table and lean completely over it. There should be a small amount of pressure on your legs, you can adjust as to what feels most comfortable for you. Then spread your legs and allow him to penetrate you from behind.

 

In this positions your weight is being supported by the couch or table and he has easy access for penetration or oral sex.

 

This position also works great if you enjoy using butt plugs or anal beads. They can sit comfortably inserted giving him a super sexy view and control of them as he sees fit!

 

#5 Sex Sling:

 

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If you require a bit more support than in a bed or on the couch, you can always try a sex sling. While they are not the easiest to get into (I suggest a step stool and partners help strapping in) they can feel like gliding on a cloud once you’re in!

 

The free motion of the straps allow you to move as you see fit and support all the right locations, your back, legs, and torso.

 

You will be able to keep your legs in the air longer while being penetrated and the straps of the sling give you a little momentum while he is thrusting.

 

#6 Living on The Edge:

 

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The edge of the bed works wonders for larger couples. BBW can lay on their back while he stands or kneels in front of you. This gives him complete access without the worry of balancing, or holding his upper body up.

 

Feel free to sling your legs over his shoulders so you don’t have to hold them up on your own. His hands can help hold them in place and provide support where needed.

 

Don’t forget this sex position for BBW works even better with a cock ring. A cock ring will keep him harder for longer and provide mind-altering clitoral stimulation with ease in a position like living on the edge provides.

 

#7 Living on the Edge Part 2:

 

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Who said the edge of the bed was only for missionary style sex positions? BBW can turn around in a doggy style position but on the edge of the bed. This allows him to stand or kneel in a comfortable position.

 

This sex position is great for deep penetration. But it also gives you good control. You can rock back and forth on your knees to adjust the depth and pace of the thrusting motion.

 

It also gives him great access to pull your shoulders back or tug your hair if you want to get a bit more kinky with it!

 

For larger couples this is one of the easiest positions to stimulate her g-spot on the front vaginal wall. She can adjust her lean to help aid in the exact sweet spot necessary for a very wet climax!

The Best Plus Size Sex Toys:

 

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Doxy Wand Vibrator:

 

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One of the best vibrators for BBW is the Doxy Wand. This is simply due to size, power, and durability. It is one of the strongest vibrators for extremely intense clitoral stimulation. The broad flexible head allows you to hit the “general” region of your clit and it will send penetrating jolts of pleasure through your core.

 

Its extremely durable and wont break, even if you want to use it between you and a partner or let your partner use it on you. Don’t worry about the plastic junk that breaks after 2 uses, this body is made from die cast aluminum that was built to last!

 

What about the size of the Doxy Wand Vibrator? It’s large enough to comfortably hold in one hand and has decent length to it. If you have shorter arms or a difficult time reaching over your stomach, the doxy is like an extension to help make your masturbation or sex life easier!

 

Limited stock and colors due to impressive launch find it here for less!

 

Atom Plus Cock Ring:

 

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Wait a second… I don’t have a cock, so what the hell good does this do me?!

 

Any man or women who’s used a cock ring can tell you it brings overwhelming pleasure to both him and her. It’s a couples sex toy, meaning you both receive simultaneous stimulation.

 

But the true secret to a cock ring is it restricts blood flow out of his shaft. This means once he gets hard and slides it on, he can stay rock hard for a much longer period of time. It also reduces the sensitivity of his shaft allowing him to go longer before climaxing.

 

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But the best part of a cock ring is yet to cum… (see what I did there?)

 

A cock ring turns his shaft into a powerful vibrator! It sends deep penetrating vibes through his entire shaft. Allowing him to rock any BBW in any sex position!

 

When he thrusts into you, the vibrating flat surface of the cock ring will contact your clitoris. This gives you strong clitoral stimulation along with his penetrating shaft!

 

Talk about dual stimulation and great orgasms for the both of you!

 

B-Vibe Bump Butt Plug

 

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BBW love their backside pleasure too! There are a lot of options when it comes to pleasurable anal beads and butt plugs for BBW. But one of my personal favorite butt plugs is the B-Vibe bump.

 

This butt plug has a special texture that reminded me of a cluster of grapes. While it’s made of premium medical grade silicone, its covered in rounded spheres that feel absolutely orgasmic when being inserted or removed.

 

The bump also has multiple vibration patterns to keep the pleasure coming all night long! Get creative and match the vibration with a vibrator you plan to use with it. Simultaneously vibe your back and front side for truly blended orgasms!

 

B-Vibe Cinco Anal Bead:

 

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Some BBW deserve the best of the best! Well the B-Vibe Cinco is the “Cadillac” of anal beads (did I just compare a car to a sex toy?)! Well needless to say it’s the most powerful, fully-loaded, premium anal bead sex toy on the market.

 

The Cinco is rather large, but I have been training my body to take the beads one at a time over the course of a few months. You don’t need it fully inserted for a huge boost in pleasure during sex or masturbation! It comes with a remote to control the 6 vibration levels and 15 different vibration patterns.

 

Once you can find that perfect position and slide the soft seamless silicone in, simply shut your eyes and enjoy the ride of a lifetime with one pleasurable wave after another! This orgasmic anal bead will rock you from the core and give you the satisfaction you’ve always craved from your anal toys!

 

Ultra Bullet Clitoral Stimulator:

 

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No matter your size, we all love a good clitoral stimulator! The Ultra bullet is small enough to stay out of the way, but large enough to hold and have great control. It’s easy to use and easy to orgasm with. Keeping things simple, it is 1 button, 20 powerful vibration modes, memory function, waterproof, and extremely quiet. What more could you ask for?

 

“The ultra-bullet is great to use while my partner is penetrating me. Its nice and slim so it fits between our bodies well and it provides that deep clitoral stimulation I crave during sex. My man enjoys the vibes too, but he really enjoys watching my eyes roll back as my legs begin to shake!”

 

Sex Tips For BBW Wrap-Up

 

Now that you have all the BBW sex tips, sex positions, and sex toys its time to indulge your deepest fantasies. Show your man a new sex position or make him watch you use that new sex toy. Either way these positions will take your sex life to new heights!

 

If I missed any good sex toys or sex positions for BBW make sure to login and drop a comment below! All of us would really appreciate additional insight! Also, feel free to leave a question below and I’ll be sure to respond! Happy BBW sex!!!

 

Hey BBW! Remember to spread the love! Share this blog with “@diskretadultlife” on any major social media platform (FB,IG, Twitter) and we will pick a winner each month to win a free orgasmic bbw sex toy to use for your next trembling orgasm!

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