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Butt Plugs for Beginners: Him&Him and Her&Her Edition

 

Good sex isn’t just about thrusting or licking. In the wonderful world of adult toys, don’t overlook the pleasure of a toy that goes in your butt and stays put. It is butt plugs we are talking about. 

 

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That “Full” Sensation in Your Butt

Butt plugs are exactly what they sound like: plug-shaped anal toys. They can be inserted in your butt safely due to their flared base. Your asshole has up to 4,000 nerve endings, which are as many as your penis has, or half as many as your clitoris has. When your butthole is excited, it sucks things up, and gives you a full sensation that feels super good. 

Butt plugs are also “gender-neutral.” They can be used in any kind of sex. 

 

For Him & Him 

Whether you are preparing for anal penetration or simply wanting to spice things up, a butt plug is a great start. 

Butt plugs can help you prepare for anal sex, especially if you are thinking of bottoming.

But how? 

The general rule of thumb is to start small and slowly work up. Butt plugs come in all different sizes, and there is always one that can fit in your asshole comfortably. Start with that one. Once you are comfortable with that size, you can upgrade to a bigger size. 

When using a butt plug, always remember to apply tons of lube. Without lube, even the smallest butt plug could hurt your ass. Water-based lube is generally good for everyone. 

Butt plugs that have a long-tapered head or resemble an actual penis are also good options for beginners. 

If your butt is too tight for anal penetration, try the Dilution Method, and insert a butt plug every other day for a while to help dilute your tight ass. 

 

For Her & Her 

 

Looking for extra pleasure from mouth-playing, caress, and penetration? Butt plugs are an excellent choice for girls. Because with butt plugs, girls are easier to achieve an orgasm! 

If you have a vagina, a butt plug will stimulate the wall between your anal canal and vagina, whether it’s curved or straight. Combined with clitoris play or vaginal penetration, your pleasure is maximized to heaven. 

For beginners, starting with a size that you are comfortable with is always good. Take it slow with lots of water-based lube. 

You also want to select those with large flare bases, which are easier to control and play in the ass for beginners. 

Look out for materials as well. Non-porous, body-safe materials are the best options. Medical-grade silicone, stainless steel, and glass are easy to use and clean up. Among those, silicone can come in a firmer or softer texture. 

 

Best Butt Plugs For Beginners

We have selected 5 best butt plugs for the first-timers, designed especially for gay and lesbian sex. 

 

Best Comprehensive Kit for Beginners and Their Partners

B-Vibe Anal Training Kit – $149.99

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This kit has three sizes – the smallest 3.4”, medium 4.4”, and large 4.8”. 

Designed especially for beginners, the smallest 3’4” can comfortably fit for most people. It’s also lightweight (35.5g) and short (3.9”), so you feel less pressure while using it. 

The material is super soft, and body-safe. Soft materials are great for beginners so that your butt plugs can fit into your asshole without hurting it. 

 

But the goodness doesn’t stop there. 

 

The kit also has a medium and a large butt plugs, that are designed to use after you get comfortable with the small size. 

The medium has a vibrating function that can help to insert and stimulate your butt. It’s rechargeable so you never worry about running out of battery!

The large is weighted for 180g, and long (5.4”). This weighted design resembles a real penis, making the sensation even fuller and more pleasurable. 

 

Finally, the kit has a lube launcher that is very helpful for beginners to apply lube to butt plugs (remember that lube is a must?). Other tools including cleaning tools and travel bags can also come into handy. 

 

Best Budget-Friendly Butt Plug For Beginners with Vibration

Petite Sensations Smooth Plug – $24.3

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This beautiful, luxury-feel butt plug has a max insertable circumference of 3” (a number that is very friendly to beginners) and a 2” large flare base. Its material is very soft and hypo-allergenic, phthalate-free, and non-porous. So if you are worried about skin sensitivity or safety, this is a go-go. 

Although it’s small, it has 3 vibration speeds and 4 motion patterns, so it’s highly customized and friendly for anyone who wants to explore. 

Its bullet inserted into the flare base can be taken off, so the butt plug can be used as vibrating and non-vibrating, whichever you prefer. 

What’s even better? The vibrating bullet can be used on the clitoris, or penis, for more pleasure together with the butt plug! 

If you prefer to have a bead design that can give more pleasure, you can get it with the same price. 

 

Petite Sensations Bubbles Plug

Don’t forget, both butt plugs are water-proof, so you have no problem using them while showering or in the pool! 

 

Best Beginner Butt Plug for Gay Sex

B-Vibe Snug & Tug – $50

 

This beginner-friendly butt plug comes with an insertable diameter 1.2” and a large flare base. But what makes it even better? Its combination of cock ring at the front. The ring is 1.57” diameter but can stretch to fit. 

 

When you put on the B-Vibe, the cock ring and the butt plug will simulate and send waves of pleasure from your p-spot, shaft, perineum, and balls. It’s a full-on pleasure package for your male orgasm! 

 

Because of its material, the cock ring can secure firmly to your shaft without hurting it. Meanwhile, your climax is delayed while your prostate is simulated. That’s why it’s called Snug and Tug. 

 

This butt plug is especially great for those who are topping but want to lengthen the pleasure.

 

Best Butt Plug for Lesbian Sex

Butt Berry Plug

Berry Butt Plug – $29.99

 

This cute butt plug “feels as pleasurable as it looks.” Its unique berry-looking pattern will give more sensation than regular butt plugs. Its materials are ultra-smooth and its size is beginner-friendly, making you get the full effect of textured premium silicone sliding in for the ultimate satisfaction.

 

Inside the butt plug, it has an award-winning RO 80 bullet that provides 7 vibrating speeds and patterns, making this butt plug a very powerful machine for female orgasm! 

 

It’s also water-proof, phthalate-free, latex-free, medically safe, making this Berry Plug safe to use inside your body and in water. 

 

Stop waiting and begin your selection to the next level of butt pleasure!

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