By: Jessica & Lee Founders of Diskret_Adult_Life (Blow Job Positions)

 

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In today’s world you hardly have time to stop and think, reflect, or give your undivided attention to anything.

 

While our faces are constantly planted in screens, traffic, and work. Everything is demanding our focus all at once…

 

But if you want to know how to give the world’s best blow job, it demands your time and undivided attention to satisfy your partner like never before!

 

You might give him good or even great blow jobs, but there is some serious untapped potential to take things to a whole new level. Like blow jobs that get you off while getting him off or amazing blow job positions you never even knew were possible!

 

There is a lot more that goes into giving the best blow job, beyond the new and creative blow job positions we will cover…

 

We will touch on the basics of how to give the best blow job first, then get into new and pleasurable blow job positions.

 

You know…

 

The blow job that will have his toes curling, back arching, and body uncontrollably shaking as you suck away.

 

The blow job that will have him screaming for more, making you so turned on that you end up getting off multiple times too!

 

The most important things to remember are:

 

  • Blow jobs can be insanely pleasurable for both of you.

 

  • Communicate about the style you want to give, and he wants to receive (rough, slow, passionate, sloppy)

 

  • Enthusiasm and eye contact go a long way!

 

  • Don’t be afraid to end with a blow job or throw it in the middle of penetrative sex.

 

 

There are not to many activities that allow you to show your complete focus on your partner like the perfect blow job. Something dedicated from you to him, expecting nothing in return. When done properly it’s a very beautiful thing.

 

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The perfect blow job can bring a world of benefits to both of you:

 

  • A stronger sex appeal and increased libido for you.

 

  • Bring you much closer to your partner, making your relationship stronger than ever.

 

  • Have the confidence knowing you satisfy your man like nobody else could do.

 

  • Satisfying him orally will most likely have him returning the favor to you more often!

 

  • He will never forget how good that perfect blow job was, don’t be shocked if you find out he was bragging to his friends about you!

 

  • Give him something most men have only fantasized about!

 

The Perfect blowjob

 

To give the perfect blow job you should use an array of different blow job positions. But it’s not always about how you finish…

 

The anticipation and teasing that lead up to the incredible blow job positions are just as important!

 

Unfortunately, relationships tend to go stagnant and the blow jobs become the same, or none existent all together!

 

A lot of women I hear from say the same exact thing:

 

“I’m just sucking dick, he will like it no matter what…”

 

“Why would I tease him, he just wants to cum right away…”

 

“Sucking dick is a chore; I avoid it all together…”

 

“Blow jobs are uncomfortable, and don’t do much for me…”

 

It’s a shame if your headed down this path. Not only can the perfect blowjob make his head spin circles around you, but it can be used as amazing foreplay for you and lead to some of the most powerful orgasms of your life!

 

Satisfying him can get you so turned on and worked up that your climax will last longer and feel more intense too. But only if you know you’re satisfying him completely.

 

You can give the perfect blow job then have him finish you off with a sex toy, or you can edge him to the point of climax and finish with mind blowing penetrative sex!

 

The perfect blow job requires anticipation & teasing:

 

Here are the top ways to build anticipation before the blowjob even starts:

 

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  • Set the mood and make sure you have plenty of time carved out.

 

  • Relax him. Start with a massage, candles, soft music whatever helps the both of you relax.

 

  • Kissing, rubbing, and grinding.

 

  • Peel his clothes off extremely slowly. When you take off the underwear make solid eye contact with him.

 

  • Start with kissing his neck and work your way down very slowly. Kissing and licking a trail down his stomach.

 

  • Kiss and lick your way from his calf up his inner groin.

 

  • Breath heavy on his cock without actually touching it.

 

  • Use your lubed hands to slowly massage his cock close to your lips.

 

  • Lick and suck just the tip.

 

  • Lick, suck, and massage his scrotum and perineum.

 

  • Try using a vibrator or your finger in and around his anus while your kiss his groin region.

 

  • Eye contact, focus, and enthusiasm during foreplay!

 

Now that you have him so turned on he can barely stand it… It’s time to start the perfect blow job with some mind-blowing oral sex positions.

 

These positions will keep you both comfortable but bring a new sense of adventure and pleasure to the bedroom.

 

You don’t need to try them all at once but devote a single session to understanding and mastering a single position (give it your best shot).

 

Just remember, he will be begging for more after you try these amazing blow job positions on him!

 

Upside down blowjob

 

The upside down blowjob is where you laying on your back and flip your head straight back. He can then kneel or stand behind you and have a straight shot in and out of your mouth.  

 

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Not only is it super comfortable for you but feels extremely pleasurable for him. So pleasurable for him he may try going deeper and deeper.

 

If that’s the case and you don’t want it that deep, grab on the base of his shaft to control the speed and depth.

 

Its also a great position if you like dominatrix play. Have him hold or tie your hands, giving him complete control.

 

He can also stimulate you with a vibrator or clitoral stimulator since he is facing your lower half and within arm’s reach! That way you can get off while getting him off!

 

The upside down blowjob gives him insane pleasure due to his control of speed, depth, and angle. He can watch every inch of his cock entering your mouth and feel the sensation of it sliding down your throat.

 

This angle is key, it doesn’t hit the back of your throat like when your neck is bent making it perfect for deep throating!

 

Blowjob from behind

 

Ahh… the famous blowjob from behind!

 

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Typically, a mans absolute favorite blow job position. If he’s never tired it, he’s in for a real treat!

 

For the blowjob from behind have him go on all fours. Then position yourself behind him, either on your knees, laying on your back, or laying on your stomach. You then begin to suck him off while his cock is brought through the legs.

 

It also gives you easy access for anal play if he is into you touch, licking, or using a sex toy around his anus.

 

Don’t be surprised if he finishes fast in this oral sex postion!

 

Kneeling blowjob

 

Everyone’s heard of the normal kneeling blowjob where the guy is standing and the girl kneels in front of him.

 

But we are going to put a twist on the kneeling blowjob position. For this one, have him kneel while you crouch in front of him. Since he doesn’t have easy access to stimulate you while you go down on him, simply slide a vibrating ben wa ball in or a vibrating butt plug!

 

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Now you can enjoy intense waves of pleasure while also getting him off!

 

Having him kneel gives him a unique angle and great view!

 

Try reaching around and grabbing his butt to guide the depth and speed you want him going at.

 

 

Blow job in Car

 

Sometimes all it takes is a change of scenery in order to make things 10x hotter! A spontaneous blow job in the car will blow his freaking mind!

 

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While I can’t encourage you to preform a blow job on him while driving (for obvious safety reasons) find a secluded place, even in your own garage will do (make sure the car is in park and turned off first)!

 

The next time your going on a date, meeting up with friends for a drink, going to a dinner party, or even to the movies. When you get in the car to leave just surprise him with a completely spontaneous blow job before heading out!

 

It can be a “quickie” if you have a place to be, but the shear surprise and new location will be a big turn on for you both!

 

PRO TIP: If you plan to try this one; bring a small towel, or Kleenex for cleanup after. Nobody likes a “dirty” car…

 

The Waterfall:

 

The waterfall is an amazing blow job position for a lot of reasons. It causes blood to rush towards his head, since his head is lower than the rest of his body. This will create a super intense orgasm for him!

 

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However, its not recommended to stay in this blow job position for extended amounts of time for that very reason.

 

That’s what makes the waterfall a great blow job position for him to finish in. Try heavy foreplay before it or stimulating him in other ways before ending with this position.

 

It’s a rather advanced position but gives him a great view of the action and a mind-altering finish!

 

Try a Masturbation Sleeve With Your Blow Job:

 

If your looking to give a legendary blow job he will never forget… Try integrating sex toys throughout it.

 

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Masturbation sleeves are a huge blast of pleasure straight to his cock, since our mouths don’t really vibrate while giving a blowjob, the masturbation sleeve can provide these unique sensations.

 

Try starting out by lubing up his cock with your hands and sliding a vibrating or non-vibrating masturbation sleeve down his shaft.

 

Slowly work it up and down his cock, giving him the show of a lifetime.

 

Then pull it completely off and start giving him a blow job. The variation in texture, vibration, sucking, and constriction will drive him freaking wild!

 

Its also an amazing compromise if you prefer, he doesn’t finish in your mouth. Let him finish in the masturbation sleeve.

 

Flip Zero Black:

 

My favorite masturbation sleeve to use on him is the Flip Zero Black. It comes with a higher price tag but nothing really compares to it.

 

Tenga, Zero Flip Black, Teng Zero Flip Black

 

The Flip Zero Black is a “tighter” version of the Flip Zero White. Which if your man is average size, it will work wonders!

 

The suction, texture, and vibration will set him off very fast. So, use it cautiously. Start with it but don’t use it too long. Tease him with it, before you start blowing him. Or you can always give him a blow job, and when your tired of it, let this handy masturbation sleeve finish him off in a flash!

 

You can even adjust the pressure and sensation by gripping the side harder or less.

 

If the vibration is just too much, you can opt for the same version but without the vibration:

 

Tenga, Zero Flip Black, Teng Zero Flip Black

 

 

Pulse 3 Duo:

 

Another great couple’s masturbation sleeve is the Pulse 3 Duo.

 

The Pulse 3 Duo is an open sleeve concept which allows him to watch each and every stroke.

 

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I love how you can leave it vibrating on the base of his cock while you blow the tip of his shaft. Talk about overwhelming way to make him finish!

 

It even comes with a remote so he can adjust the vibration patterns and intensities mid action!

 

Talk about super sexy, having control over his pleasure in the palm of your hand!

 

Try an Anal Sex Toy W/ Your Blow Job:

 

If your man enjoys anal play… Well he is in for the climax of a lifetime.

 

During foreplay lube up the anal toy and slowly slide it in him. If he is a beginner they make perfect butt plugs that are slim and tapered for even the most novice users such as the B-Vibe Novice.

 

B-Vibe Novice Plug

 

If he is an expert, he might enjoy something a little more powerful with a lot of features like the Hugo.

 

Either way, the pleasure of deep rumbling prostate pleasure while you suck his cock is one of the most pleasurable ways he will ever get off.

 

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I suggest something that has a remote, that way he can adjust the settings as he desires without having to stop you and pull it out.

 

A great butt plug designed for this is the ditto. It will hook up directly to his phone (Bluetooth) so he can find the perfect intensity with ease and ramp it up just before he finishes.

 

 

If you’re looking for something non-vibrating, try the p-fun njoy plug. It’s a badass stainless-steel plug that is designed with the perfect curve to stimulate his p-spot all night long.

 

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Best Blow Job Conclusion:

 

Now that we’ve given you some new and exciting blow job sex positions along with different tips and tricks, its time to test them out!

 

Give your partner a heads up if you want to try one of the more advance positions or sex toys.

 

Its important to strive for new and pleasurable ways for both of you to get off. Never stop exploring! The adventurous nerves of trying something for the first time is half the fun!

 

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If you have any other questions, please drop a comment below and I’ll be sure to get back to you!

 

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