By Jane Jett of DiskretAdultLife, Oct. 19th, 2018
It takes practice to become a skilled masturbator. The bottom line is that whether a woman has had difficulty achieving an orgasm or not, knowing how to use a vibrator works wonders. It just does, and it is that simple. Years ago, before it was ok to say vibrator, women referred the magic wands as facial massagers. Today’s shapes and sizes are less conducive to contouring and more focused on orgasmic pleasure.
Masturbation can cure headaches, relieve pain and make you smile more. During an orgasm, endorphins flood the body. You basically get extremely high in an instant. While most people may feel this is best done with, perhaps a friend or local service, masturbating with a sex toy can be more efficient if done on a regular basis. In addition, you don’t have to wait around for your partner to get things started, and you can get the job done whenever you feel like it. It’s just so more convenient.
Female Masturbation with Vibrators:
The vibrator should be used for clitoral stimulation as well as insertion. Ladies are you ready? Lie down in a quiet place, close your eyes and turn inward, to the feel of the body. Let the mid float to someone that excite the body. Anybody, a movie star, the handsome man behind you at the store who gently rubbed up against you on line, even your significant other. Imagine him looking at you stretched out naked on the bed. Feel him touch your breasts, stroking the inside of your thigh and gently massaging the clitoris. Let the vibrator be his hands and penis. Enjoy the moment, slowly savor all the sensations. Imagine your lover thrusting deep into you while your pelvis is arching up to him, aching for him, ready to ignite the hottest orgasm. If one fantasy does not work, relax and wander into the next scene. Be as outrageous in your mind’s eye as you can. Perhaps the man has kidnapped you or maybe it is your spouse and his beautiful friend. Be willing to let your mind take your body to a new height of orgasm.
Female Masturbation for Beginners:
Many women do not experiment with masturbation until well into their twenties. If you are a beginner, you may not strike it rich right away. Do not get discouraged, it could take some practice to get your body to respond freely. The unused muscles are going to be a bit sore initially. May take some time to build up your strength. Just be patient and you will achieve orgasm. Sexual research has proven that nearly 95% of women who use a vibrator can achieve an orgasm. After the first time, it is like riding a bicycle over and over again.
According to some doctors, sex toys are important to a woman’s sexual life because they can help her really learn about herself and what she likes and doesn’t like, which in turn, will help her feel more confident in the boudoir. Some studies have even found that women who masturbate regularly tend to have higher self-esteem and body confidence than women who don’t, and this is often due to them not knowing their own bodies.
How Many Females Masturbate?
Although there have been plenty of myths that suggest females don’t indulge in self-exploration as much as men, multiple studies have debunked this untruth. In actuality, 92 percent of women admit to masturbating regularly and some even own products that assist them in satisfying themselves sexually. While some women feel uncomfortable using sex toys or even discussing them, 44 percent of ladies between the ages of 18 and 60 have used a sexual enhancement device. So why do we still feel self-conscience and uncomfortable when talking about women and sex toys?
Lastly, sexual exploration with a sex toy can also help you have better sexual relationships. Knowing what you like and how to express yourself sexually is attractive and makes you appear confident and self-assured, which are definite turn-ons. It also takes the guess work out of sex as your partner won’t be forced to guess what you make you moan from pleasure and what makes you shy away. Why? Because you’ve taken the time to figure things out for yourself. Once again, being in touch with yourself sexually will also make you more confident in the bedroom and willing to try new things to please yourself and your partner.