Feminist Porn!

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By: Lee & Jessica Owners Of DiskretAdultLife, Nov. 23rd, 2018

Men are not the only gender to masturbate, use sex toys, and of course WATCH PORN. Even though the porn scene has been dominated by the male customer, it doesn’t mean women don’t enjoying watching it too! So where is the feminist porn at?! Most of the mainstream porn sites are hardcore, fake, and downright cheesy. Most porn videos are low quality, have zero foreplay, and involve a man dominating a woman…

The good news for women is that the times are changing. I believe “some” porn directors have noticed a shift in women becoming customers as well. So feminist porn is starting to become more popular. When I say “more popular”, I mean a few high quality websites or perhaps a category on a mainstream website. This guide was built for a quick reference to explain what feminist porn is, where the highest quality sites are to find it, and exactly how you should enjoy them.feminist porn, couple

What is Feminist Porn?

The real question is what is feminist porn, and can porn even be geared towards women? This is a popular question among our customers, let us be the first to tell you, feminist porn is absolutely a real thing! If you’re a man or women with a specific fetish, chances are there are hundreds of videos on it. But what about the women who want a softcore porn experience? Turns out 50% of couples watch porn together, the chances are you don’t want to watch hardcore female domination as your first videos together or perhaps never at all. That’s where feminist porn comes into play.

Feminist Porn Myths:

There is a common misconception that feminist porn is strictly long foreplay scenes, where the couple gazes into each other’s eyes, and makes out for 20 minutes before slowly stripping each other’s clothes off. While you can find a lot of feminist porn like this if that’s your thing, it is not the only feminist porn style out there. Feminist porn can be more hardcore in nature, but the big difference is this:

  • Everyone in the porn scene is tested properly.
  • The performers are not pressured into any scenes they don’t want to do.
  • The performers “safe words” are respected on set.
  • The director is concerned for their performer’s well being vs. just turning the largest profit possible.

Like purchasing a blood diamond vs. a certified clean diamond when you watch feminist porn you are supporting the actors and actress’s well-being both on and off scene. This does tend to make feminist porn less “harsh” in nature, and more enjoyable for couples to watch.feminist porn, couple

How do I know It Is Feminist Porn?

Even if you have been watching porn for years, being able to tell “feminist porn” from “regular porn” is no small feat. Especially for people new to porn.It’s a tall order to understand and support the feminist porn movement.

I hate to say it, but if it’s free porn it most likely is not feminist porn. If you find free feminist porn, it was most likely stolen from a real feminist porn site. Turns out, most ethically made feminist porn you find on major sites has been stole, so none of the benefits you get from watching it actually support the sex workers. If you want to help change the industry you will need to invest a little. A slight investment for the amount of continued pleasure you can enjoy is well worth it. Same goes for investing in a quality sex toy!

Introducing Your Partner to Feminist Porn:

We get this question all the time… How do I introduce watching porn with my partner? Just so happens feminist porn is a great place to start! You won’t have to watch any uncomfortable hardcore porn where misogyny, sexism, and abuse happen. Here are a few tips to ease your partner into it:

  • Bring up the topic of feminist porn in light conversation:

    The next time your talk about your sex life such as, sex positions you like, places you enjoy doing it, or the sex toys you enjoy most… bring up feminist porn. Tell them about a video you saw or article you read explaining it, then suggest the idea to them. Find out if they would be interested in exploring it with you.

  • Ensure they are the focus not the feminist porn:

    The idea of watching feminist porn together is for the excitement and becoming turned on initially. Use it as foreplay to start but it should not become the sole focus while you’re enjoying penetrative sex. Ensure your partner of this and have it on in the background while your main attention is always on your partner.

  • Agree on what type of feminist porn you will watch:

    Make sure you pick something you both find to be a major turn on. This just involves communication and perhaps starting a few videos that you stop part way through in order to try something else. After a couple rounds of this you will know what each other like and compromise on the best videos possible.feminist porn, couple

The Best Feminist Porn (Each site title is a link…NSFW):

 

Here is a list of the highest quality, best feminist porn on the market. These are not only rated the highest by thousands of people, testimonies have shown these are a great starting place for diving into feminist porn with a partner.

  • Frolicme:

    If you want the best feminist porn… start here. It has high quality HD erotic films, stories, and galleries with serious production value. The site is based on fantasy, trysts, sensuality, and light bondage. (1 week trial is $7.00)

  • For The Girls:

    The title says it all! This was one of the original feminist porn sites. The site was built by 2 women and tailored to their specific content that they find most enjoyable. Its most common to find straight female porn on here. It starts with soft solo scenes all the way to light kink. ($45 for 3 months)

  • Crash Pad Series:

    The Crash Pad Series is based on a queer porn cult classic. Here is the basic run down: you need a key to enter the crash pad, once you’ve used your key 7 times, you must leave. It’s essentially a reality TV show… as LGBTQ feminist porn. ($10 a month)

  • Lust Cinema:

    This is the most common feminist porn site. It was founded by Erica Lust who was featured in the popular Netflix series “Hot Girls Wanted”. All the titles make the feminine perspective understood, and innovation are highly encouraged. It has various categories of vintage, modern feminist porn, romance, tutorials, and kink. ($16 per month for 6 months)

  • Bright Desire:

    This is indie feminist porn at it’s best. It has a focus on real bodies and realistic sex scenes. It has lots of laughter, intimacy, and down to earth fun hot sexy scenes. This feminist porn will even interview the performers after to see a behind the scenes look at how it was made! ($40.00 for 3 months)

  • X Confessions:

    This site is a little different than most feminist porn sites. People send in their erotic fantasies, and Erika Lust (who we spoke of earlier) will turn them into artfully made feminist porn films. Chances are if someone else had a serious fantasy, you might find it erotic and hot as well. The actors are real, and the collection of films are honest and down to earth.

  • Hot Movies For Her:

    Hot movies for her has one of the largest collections of feminist porn available. You can try it out with 20 mins for free if you wish. They have everything from hot solo senses up to hardcore kink. ($45.00 for 3 months)

  • Smart Ass Production:

    Tristan Taormino is an author, writer, sex educator, radio host and feminist pornographer. Smart Ass Productions is her adult film company. She knows most people who watch porn are sick of the fake loud screams and corny “plumber scenes” that fill the wide spread porn world. She wants to make something different, something unique, that everyone can relate to. Her films are special and treat actors with complete respect.

  • Diskret Adult Life:

    While we are not a feminist porn site, we offer high class sex toys that are made to last! Our sex toys will bring intense pleasure while you enjoy your feminist porn. Remember they are great to use with a partner as well!

Best Way to Enjoy Feminist Porn:

 

            So now that you know the top feminist porn sites in the industry… what’s the best way to watch them? While everyone is different and enjoys porn their own way, we have a couple tips to really enhance the experience.

  • Set the mood:

It might seem “cheese” to prepare the atmosphere before watching porn, but it can make all the difference in the world! Make sure you have your privacy and are completely comfortable. It will give you an “ease of mind” knowing the doors are locked, window curtains drawn. Dim the lights and even light some candles as the smell will help your body fully relax. Relaxation is the key to enjoying the film and the pleasure it will bring!feminist porn, couple

  • Have plenty of time:

This relates to setting the mood and being able to relax… but make sure you have time! A quickie has its time and place, but if you want a long pleasurable experience, take the time to set the details first, then don’t proceed to rush into the pleasure. Enjoy the film, touch yourself or your partner as the film progresses. Depending on the length, watch it all the way to the end or start going at it part way through. But the longer you can hold off and get turned on, the better the sex or masturbation will be!

  • Bring the lube!

Make sure you have plenty of lube, the feminist films can be fairly long in length. To avoid her from drying up part way thorough or to keep the masturbation wet and pleasurable we suggest lube. The two main types of lube are water-based, which will clean of sheets and clothing but won’t last as long, so you may need to re-apply a few times throughout your session. The second type is oil-based lube, which will last for as long as you require. However, oil-based lube might stain your sheets so make sure to put a towel down first.

  • Enjoy with your partner:

Some wish to enjoy feminist porn alone for a great solo masturbation session… however, introducing a partner can add a whole new level of pleasure to the experience. Bring it up to them using the tips shown above, let the pleasure from all senses overwhelm both you!feminist porn, couple

With a partner or solo, a quality sex toy is almost a must. It will bring pleasure in many different forms weather it be a dildo, vibrator, or cockring. These can be used on your partner while they watch the feminist porn or on yourself while you watch. Make sure to bring the lube and expect zero faked orgasms from the porn and your partner!!how to use a butt plug

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