By: Jessica & Lee Founders of Diskret_Adult_Life (How To Eat Pussy)

 

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Guys, this is how to eat pussy the right way.

 

Finally brought to you in a simple, easy to understand guide that is realistic and works every time!

 

Just like most of you guys love an incredible blow job, most women love oral sex too!

 

If you know she’s into it; it’s time for you to take her for the ride of her life! I’m going to show you how to eat pussy like a champion.

 

Is it really a competition though?

 

While you might not be competing directly with other men, you should always take satisfying your partner seriously…

 

It’s friendly competition with yourself (if nothing else).

 

Can I get even better at eating pussy?

 

 After all, you get some amazing benefits from deeply satisfying her too!

 

Such as:

 

  • A huge boost in confidence knowing you can make her orgasm anytime you eat her out.

 

  • When you satisfy her every oral desire, she’ll return the favor!

 

  • She will never forget how good you are at eating pussy and don’t be shocked if you find out she’s been bragging about you to her friends.

 

  • Once you learn how to eat pussy the best way, you will never feel closer to your partner. Great oral brings a huge boost to any relationship!

 

  • Bringing her pleasure, will bring you pleasure! It’s a chemical reaction in your brain. Ever notice how good you feel after watching her eyes roll back as she experiences a full body orgasm because of you?

 

So, now that you have even more incentive to learn how to eat pussy, what are the common issues with how you do it currently?

 

I’m sorry guys, but even if you think you’re a legend at eating pussy… Odd are you’re doing part of it wrong if not all of it!

 

It’s harsh, but sometime a reality check is in order to keep us manly men in order. You can’t get better until you know you’re not the best and willing to learn.

 

Here are common concerns we hear all the time that made us feel compelled to help educate men on how to eat pussy better:

 

  • “When my husband goes down on me…. It takes forever to get me off!”

 

  • “He literally gets a sore neck and tired tongue it takes him so long to give me an orgasm.”

 

  • “It feels awkward and even painful sometimes when he is giving me oral. Can you explain how to eat pussy to my boyfriend?”

 

  • “He is so bad at it… we just avoid all together.”

 

  • “I get bored when he is giving me oral… I want him to try something new and exciting!”

 

I’ve heard it thousands of times and similar statements made by real women as quoted above.

 

Chances are if your lady isn’t ecstatic every time you eat her pussy out… She may feel similar. But that’s okay, because we can easily fix it!

 

Going down on her shouldn’t be a chore! You can make it the most pleasurable part of your entire sex life!

 

So, let’s dive into it!

 

How To Eat Pussy 101:

 

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We aren’t going to make this rocket science guys, because you don’t need a thesis paper on how to eat pussy the best way possible.

 

What you need are simple takeaways that are going to boost your ability to eat her out. Mastering them all over time will make you legendary, but let’s learn to walk before we run.

 

A few takeaways that you can implement the next time you go down on her will take you from lousy to good.

 

Here is what I am going to talk about in detail and I want you to focus on just a few to start:

 

  • Communication: How do you know if she likes something or doesn’t… unless she tells you?

 

  • Foreplay Before Foreplay: It’s about anticipation, teasing, and taking your time.

 

  • Tips For Beginners: How to eat pussy like the best of us.

 

  • Expert Mode: How to become legendary at eating pussy.

 

  • Best positions to eat her out.

 

  • How to finish her off.

 

While you might be super excited about this, you don’t need to try it all at once!

 

Actually, most women prefer to keep things more simplistic to start and branch out from there.

 

Enthusiasm is important. Don’t make going down on her a chore, make it something you strive to improve so its pleasurable for both of you!

 

It all starts with communication.

 

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Communication Is The Best Way To Eat Your Girl Out:

 

Communication?

 

Half of you guys have already skipped over this section, the other half are skeptical…

 

Guys, there is a reason I put this as the first topic in the blog…. It’s the most important thing to eating your girl out properly!

 

“Fuck communication, I want to know how the double pretzel tongue twister works, that’s what my woman would want the most!” – Worlds Manliest Moran

 

I’m sorry if I’ve offended some of you, but it’s necessary to get my point across.

 

Here is what I get on a daily basis:

 

Women just like yours: “I really like that my man goes down on me. It’s a huge turn on for both of us. However, he must think the faster and harder he goes the more pleasure I get. But sometimes I just want it slow and he is way too rough! What should I do? I don’t want him to stop going down on me, but it can hurt sometimes!”

 

My response: “This is very common and lucky for you has a very simple solution! The next time it feels to rough, gently pull his hair back so he is looking directly at you, and say “go a little softer” then guide his head back down into your lap.”

 

There is a huge misconception that communication isn’t sexy. It’s not stylish, chic, and kills the mood.

 

I’m sorry it’s not that “cool” instead let’s just keep using our tongue like a flag flapping in the wind, while she is slowly crying on the inside!

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It’s not “her job” to tell you if it doesn’t feel good.

 

It’s your job to ask her how it feels.

 

If you’re a new couple, you should be asking her more frequently. Once you truly know exactly what she wants and how she wants it you can cut back on the communication.

 

But even then, just like us men, women have moods. Sometimes they want slow passionate love making and sometimes they might want rough kinky hard oral sex.

 

You need to communicate in order to figure that out and also use body language as a great indicator.

 

To put it bluntly… If she’s laying there silent like a dead fish, you might want to try something else…

 

So, how the hell do I communicate when I’m also trying to eat pussy?

 

You don’t need to tell her a novel.

 

Keep it short and sweet, you only need a single word response to guide you.

 

Here are the best phrases to ask when you want to know how to eat pussy the right way:

 

  • What are you in the mood for?

 

  • How do you like that?

 

  • How was it?

 

  • What do you want me to try next time?

 

  • Is this okay?

 

  • Where do you want me to lick?

 

  • Faster or slower?

 

  • Harder or softer?

 

  • How do you want it?

 

While it might be a bit awkward to stop everything, look up at her and say harder or softer? There are a million ways you can work it into your oral sex that will keep things sexy.

 

For example, after going down on her for a few minutes you can kiss your way up her body ending at her neck. Then whisper in her ear “You’re turning me on like crazy… Do you want me to keep doing that?”

 

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If she nods yes whisper, “Do you want it harder or softer than that?”

 

It’s a sly way of getting important feedback to your next move!

 

Another form of communication can be physical guidance, not always verbal.

 

Have her gently guide your head up, down, left, or right with her hands. Have her move your tongue to exactly where she wants the stimulation.

 

You can even have her guide your hands and fingers. Maybe she wants clitoral stimulation from your fingers while you eat out her vagina? Let her show you what’s going to get her off.

 

As men, we aren’t exactly the best at reading minds.

 

It’s okay, we just need to let our partners know we want feedback before, during, and after we eat them out.

 

Nobody is a better guide to her body and mind then herself!

 

It’s time to take serious advantage of that!

 

When you’re done having sex ask her how it was. If she’s shy and always says good, then dig a little deeper.

 

“It was good for me too, what do you want to try next time though?”

 

Or “Yea that was great, but what did you like the most?”

 

Communicate. Listen. Learn. Develop…. Master!

 

You wanted to become a master of how to eat pussy?

 

Say it with me:

 

Communicate. Listen. Learn. Develop….. Master!

 

The Art of Eating Pussy: Foreplay Before Foreplay

 

Going down on her can be foreplay before penetrative sex.

 

But who said there wasn’t foreplay before the foreplay?

 

By increasing foreplay 15-20 minutes you can increase the chance your woman will orgasm by 53%.

 

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Mastering the art of eating pussy requires you to make it a whole body experience, not just the act of eating her out.

 

How do you please her mind, before you even touch her body?

 

I might sound like Confucius talking but it’s really simple and can make or break your ability to please her.

 

Unless the mood calls for it, don’t just rip her clothes off and immediately start eating her out.

 

Build the anticipation by taking these simple steps:

 

  • Set the mood: If you have time, set the mood a bit to show her you care! Dim the lights, lite candles, have the lube ready, have the sex toy out and charged. It’s the little things that mean the most!

 

  • Take your time: Don’t jump right to the goods! Kiss, make out, touch, and strip each other very slowly. Talk dirty and whisper in her ear: how bad do you want it? Good things come to those who wait! She should be damn near begging for it by the time she’s naked.

 

  • Tease Her: Kiss, lick, and breath everywhere except the spot she wants it most. Kiss up and down her inner thighs skipping over her pussy. Just slowly breathe hot air over her pussy (like you would before polishing your sunglasses).

 

  • Just the tip: Tease her even more by running just the tip of your tongue along the side of her vagina. Light flickering over her clit will make her want it even more. You can have her dripping wet before you even start eating her out!

 

  • Use Your Hands: They shouldn’t be locked in place. Unless you’re playing the fun game “no touch rule” you should always be using your hands when going down on her. You can be stimulating her clit, vagina, anus, or breasts all while you eat her out. You can also use them to prop her hips up and maneuver her as you please.

 

So, you want to know how to eat a girl out?

 

First, you need to know how to build the anticipation. This will amplify everything you do, making it feel 10x better to her.

 

Let her know early in the morning you plan to eat her out that evening. Let her think on it all day long… Send her dirty texts randomly throughout the day. Make her daydream of what’s to cum (pun intended)!

 

How To Eat Pussy For Beginners:

 

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 If you want to know how to eat pussy like a pro, like all things, you need to start with the basics. These fundamental building blocks will become important for you to advance to more technical methods.

 

First things first, the anatomy.

 

Take a look at the diagram and make sure you know where everything is, and what it does.

 

girl anatomy

 

vagina diagram

 

I’m going to cover the most important spots (the pleasure zones).

 

  • Clitoris – Her clitoris is probably the most important part of her vulva when you are eating her out and licking her pussy. It’s a rookie mistake to ignore it completely! The clit is a tiny nub of flesh full of nerve endings that you will be focusing most of your effort on. 80% of women require clitoral stimulation to climax. You need to stimulate it!

 

  • Vagina – Her vagina is the other area of her body, besides her clit that is super sensitive and feels incredible for her when it’s stimulated with your tongue, lips, fingers, or penis. Since the vagina is internal it can be stimulated shallow with your tongue, or more in depth with your fingers or sex toy.

 

  • Anus – Her anus also possesses a lot of nerve endings and can be quite pleasurable to have stimulated too if she’s into anal play. While most beginners don’t take on rimming (the act of licking her anus) her anus can still be stimulated with a finger or sex toy to provide blended back side stimulation while you are eating her out.

 

  • G-Spot – Her G spot is located about 2-3 inches inside her vagina facing upwards (towards her bellybutton). If you’re using your fingers, feel for a place surrounded by valleys or subtle ridges similar to a raspberry texture. Her G-Spot won’t feel extremely pleasurable to the touch unless she’s highly aroused. Again, why the foreplay before the foreplay is so important!

 

  • A-Spot – The A-Spot is located much deeper in her vagina on the anterior wall by the cervix. When stimulated it can lead to powerful vaginal orgasms. The A Spot requires a longer sex toy to be properly stimulated, preferably one that vibrates to radiate those rumbles from deep within her core. Again, this can be blended with eating her pussy out to give the ultimate experience!

 

  • Labia Majora & Labia Minora- The Labia’s are the flaps of skin that run along the outside of her vagina. The labia majora is much larger than the labia minora. These areas are highly sensitive to a woman. Use these to your advantage when going down on her. Lick, kiss, blow, touch and caress these areas to tease and satisfy her.

 

 

The Beginner Technique To Eating Pussy:

 

Now that you know how to build the anticipation and where all her sensitive spots are, lets talk technique for beginners who want to go down on her.

 

Lucky for you most women really only require two basic things to get off.

 

  • A comfortable and pleasurable position.

 

  • Rhythm and consistency.

 

If you build up the anticipation with extended, proper foreplay and find a comfortable and pleasurable position for her…. For the love of god, just stick with it!

 

 

So many beginners make the mistake of constantly switching positions, angles, speed, and pressure. You don’t need all this wizardly magic in order to get her off (90% of the time).

 

You just need a turned-on woman and find that rhythm she enjoys to get her to orgasm.

 

What the hell do you mean rhythm and consistency? Am I in a rock and roll band?

 

When I say rhythm, I mean whatever pace and pressure you are fingering her or licking her you keep it the same for an extended amount of time until she orgasms.

 

This is where that feedback and communication comes in. If she really loves something, just stick with it. Don’t try to fix something that’s not broke!

 

So, what exactly should I do with my tongue and hands when I am eating pussy?

 

The Flat & Wide:

 

Super simple, super effective.

 

Start with your tongue hanging out of your mouth completely relaxed.

 

Now make it as flat and wide as you comfortably can.

 

Then slowly lick from the base of her vulva upward until the tip of your tongue is past her clitoris. By only moving your head up.

 

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Your tongue doesn’t even move! Just keep it flat and wide.

 

Once you’re at the top, retract your tongue, lower your head start the process over again.

 

By retracting your tongue each time, try to keep it moist. You don’t want a dragging effect, simply gliding over her.

 

Have her guide the back of your head in if she desires more pressure!

 

Start with minimal pressure, like I said before speed and pressure does not translate to a more powerful orgasm!

 

If she can cum from light pressure, stick with minimal pressure.

 

If you are not hearing, seeing or feeling much of a reaction from her (faster breathing. moaning, clutching at linens, bodily tension if she’s close to orgasm), then start to use increasing amounts of pressure until you can tell she’s enjoying it.

 

Same goes for speed. Start slow and increase as she responds via body language or verbally.

 

The “Screaming O”:

 

The screaming O technique is perfect for beginners. It’s easy to do and can be extremely effective at making her orgasm.

 

Start by making a small “O” shape with your lips. The “O” should be slightly bigger than her clit.

 

Get your lips nice and wet, then place the “O” directly over her clit making a tight seal. Then gently start sucking it.

 

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You can keep a constant level of suction or try rhythmically sucking and releasing the pressure.

 

Another option is sucking the clit in fast and hard, before slowly releasing it back out, then repeating this over and over.

 

Lastly, you can try sucking her clit in and holding it there. While you have it sucked in take your tongue and begin to massage her clit. This gives her mind-blowing pleasure from all angles!!

 

Lick and Finger Her G-Spot:

 

Remember how I said to always use those free hands of yours?

 

Now’s the time to give her blended stimulation by not only licking her clit but massaging her G-Spot at the same time!

 

You can suck her clit or preform slow rolling circles over it, while at the same time using the “come here” motion with a finger over her G-Spot.

 

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Its been proven that oral and manual sex (fingering) along with deep kissing are the three most important activities to get a woman to orgasm.

 

So why not blend these 3 together in the same session?!

 

Pro Tip: Take your other hand and gently apply pressure to her mons pubis area to provide stimulation to the G-spot externally.

 

Put Her On Top:

 

Why not make this a team activity?

 

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Try laying on your back and let her straddle your head between her thighs.

 

She can then both control the pressure and speed of which your tongue is going by sitting down more and moving back and forth faster.

 

Let her take charge! You just need to give her a broad, wet tongue to work with!

 

Use a Beginner Sex Toy:

 

Okay… This isn’t even fair now.

 

Introducing a sex toy while eating her out is hands-down the easiest and most effective way to give her mind-altering orgasms (one after another)!

 

It can give your mouth and neck a break or add huge additional stimulation while eating her pussy. However, you want to use it.

 

What should I use on her?

 

You want something non-intrusive that will stay out of your way.

 

Best thing to use is a smaller g-spot vibrator while you suck on her clit.

 

My favorite for this is the G-Kii. It can be bent to whatever angle you desire and hold that position for perfect g-spot targeting!

 

G Kii

 

It also happens to be extremely powerful to rock her body with pleasurable waves from within.

 

Or you can use a clitoral stimulator like this Womanizer 2 Go, while you lick her vaginally.

 

The Womanizer 2 Go is very slim body suction sex toy that uses pulse wave technology. A fancy way of saying it can suck, stop, suck… at whatever pace and intensity she desires!

 

womanizer 2 Go

 

The nice thing about the Womanizer 2 Go is it easy to hold and stays out of your way.

 

All the other sex toys that have this capability are fairly bulky compared to it. Not a problem for her solo masturbation sessions but not ideal for when you want to eat her out.

 

Give the Womanizer 2 Go a try. You’ll have her eyes rolling to the back of her head and body trembling from within!

 

Expert Mode: How To Eat Pussy Like A God

 

 

You got the basics down. You know how to build the anticipation, her anatomy, hell you can even get her off almost with ease by going down her.

 

You’re now ready for something more…

 

orgasm control

 

Something advanced that your woman hasn’t seen yet.

 

Something that requires some serious skill but when preformed right can bring her a longer lasting, more intense orgasm.

 

“She’s never had an orgasm like this before. Her entire body was convulsing, as she moaned and rolled around in bed. I was in disbelief… Did I just really do this to her?!” – Paul S. (FL)

 

You will be shocked at the results these provide, but only try these if:

 

  • You know her body and what she likes.

 

  • Communicate openly with her.

 

  • Can already get her off with ease but want to mix things up in the bedroom.

 

Warning: Have been caused to make women scream with pleasure!

 

Edge Her Back & Forth:

 

Edging is a powerful tool used to make her orgasms last longer and feel more intense.

 

It’s also a great tool to get her to squirt when used with G-Spot stimulation and eating her out!

 

Start by eating her out like you normally would.

 

When you can tell she is getting close to climaxing, start to slow down your stimulation. Less pressure and at a slower rate to prevent her from orgasming!

 

Spend some extra time (1-2 mins) kissing around her vagina, up and down her thighs, or on her breasts.

 

When she as calmed down a bit, go back to eating her out and build her up to orgasm again.

 

Then just before she about to spill over the edge…

 

Stop.

 

Let her relax before you build her up again.

 

This will drive her wild, yet also give her the most explosive orgasm of all time when you do decide to send her over the edge!

 

Pro Tip: If its hard to get your lady off by going down on her in the first place, don’t try edging. Not unless you have a great sex toy to help build her back up.

 

Here is the perfect sex toy for edging her.

 

Fingering Her Ass While Eating Her Out:

 

If your partner loves anal play, why not introduce that while eating her pussy?

 

The combinations of playing with her ass are endless but I would start with:

 

  • Simply rub it on the outside without ever penetrating it.

 

  • Light, rhythmic pressure on the opening, without penetrating it.

 

  • In & out penetration.

 

  • Holding your finger(s) inside her ass

 

Put your arm over her leg and reach around for easy access.

 

Just remember, once your finger goes in her ass, it should not be used in her or around her vagina.

 

Pro Tip: Use one finger on your left hand for her ass, one finger on your right hand for her vagina, while you eat her out. It takes some serious dexterity and focus but if you can get this one down you just reached the trifecta move! Blended orgasms are insane with all 3 forms of stimulation simultaneously.

 

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 The Tongue Moves:

 

When your ready to try something new, start experimenting with your tongue moves.

 

Experienced couples will have open dialogue about what they like best.

 

I know I said keep things simple and you don’t need crazy tongue moves to get your woman off…

 

I still stand my ground on that. These tongue moves are if you are looking to break the mundane routine of eating pussy regularly.

 

These are for once you can get your girl off with ease by going down on her but looking for a challenge and fun way to keep doing it.

 

If that’s you, try these:

 

  • Swirl your tongue around her clit in tight small circles.

 

  • Flicking her clit up and down, left and right with the tip of your tongue.

 

  • Try broad flat strokes but in reverse, from the top of her clit to her vagina.

 

  • Do long slow swirling strokes as though you are making out with pussy.

 

  • Curl your tongue tight and penetrate her with it.

 

If you really want to know how to eat pussy like a god, you will eventually master various techniques that your woman really likes!

 

Does she like it on the left or right side? Does she like it curled or broad?

 

Only time, practice, and feedback will tell!

 

Rimming Her:

 

Rimming is the act of eating her ass out.

 

Its not for every guy, but if your girl likes anal and you find it to be a big turn on… It can be a fantastic form of foreplay!

 

Just remember: Do not touch her pussy again with your mouth once you have ate her ass out.

 

Her backside bacteria shouldn’t mix with her frontside, it can lead to irritation or infection.

 

If you’re looking for more information on rimming check out this post.

 

Use An Anal Sex Toy While You Eat Her Pussy:

 

Want to give her full body orgasms while you eat her out?

 

Do you want to feel her vagina convulsing around your tongue from uncontrollable body tremors?

 

Yes, its as hot as it sounds!

 

Great way to do this is through stimulating her anus with something that has deep rumbling vibes, while you eat her out.

 

It doesn’t take much, I prefer something like the Je Joue NUO butt plug because its fairly slim but really powerful.

 

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You can easily lube it up and slide it in her backside while you eat her out. The best part about it? Let her change the vibes and intensities as she feels fit right from her phone!

 

That is the least intrusive way of letting her find the perfect groove while you find yours!

 

A great beginner anal plug to use is the B-Vibe Novice Plug.

 

B-Vibe Novice Plug

 

Its slim and tapered for easy insertion, has an award-winning design that is extremely pleasurable, and also comes with a wireless remote-controller.

 

That way you let her control the vibes coming from the super safe and perfectly shaped design. Allowing her to experience intense anal orgasms while you continue to eat her out!

 

The hottest sex positions to try while you eat her out:

 

Ready to try some new oral sex positions?

 

Sick of her just laying on her back with her legs spread for you to go down on her?

 

If you want to know how to eat pussy like a champion, its time to switch up the same old routines!

 

Tell her you want to try something new and help guide her into position. Ask before you even start to eat her out if she is comfortable enough and wants you to continue.

 

If she enjoys it, keep it in your back pocket to pull out at another time!

 

Give these sexy oral sex positions a shot:

 

Her on Top:

 

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69 Position:

 

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Doggy Oral Sex:

 

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The Easy Chair:

 

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Shoulder Stand:

 

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How To Make A Girl Cum By Eating Her Pussy:

 

Its time to wrap things up on how to eat pussy like a champion.

 

 

Here are the major takeaways:

 

  • Listen for feedback. Either through body language or verbal. If you can’t tell how somethings going, all you have to do is ask!

 

  • Be consistent and rhythmic. Most women don’t need crazy tongue twisters. They need solid foreplay, anticipation, and for you to be consistent with your motions.

 

  • Its not a race. The goal isn’t to make her cum in 5 minutes with crazy tongue moves. Take your time, be passionate, and show her you enjoy it too!

 

  • Do not replicate porn. Sorry guys, but 95% of the porn flicks out there are a good guide of what not to do! Become her Rockstar, not her pornstar!

 

  • Making her orgasm doesn’t have to be your sole focus. You should be focused on giving her pleasure, that’s it! If it leads to an orgasm great, if not you can try different techniques or use it as foreplay leading to penetrative sex!

 

  • Use a sex toy while eating her out to blow her flipping mind! The vibes are hard to beat. Using a clitoral stimulator, g-spot vibrator, or anal sex toy while you eat her out can give a huge boost in stimulation and lead to explosive blended orgasms. Orgasms that are brought on through multiple forms of stimulation.

 

If you want even more tips check out this blog on how to eat a girl out.

 

Still have questions, comments or concerns? Drop a comment below and I’ll be sure to get back to you!

 

Remember to spread the love! Share this blog with “@diskretadultlife” on any major social media platform (FB,IG, Twitter) and we will pick a winner each month for a free orgasmic  sex toy  you can use eating her out!

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