By Jane Jett, July 30th, 2018
Men what if I was to tell you… you have so much sensuality and unexplored orgasmic sexual potential via your hips? Most men approach sex in a very mechanical way why? Well there is no variation in speed, positions or thrusting techniques with the end result ends up being a robotic sex devoid of any emotion (and it also shortens your lasting time dramatically).
There is a serious lack of creativity among men when it comes to variety in their sex life which is a real shame. Growing up, men watch a lot of porn, and end up trying to emulate what the actors do. The problem is just that, these men are actors, and only do what looks good on camera, not what actually feels good. The other problem is that men are scared to try something new. Men get in the habit of doing the same thing every time, and that’s what men do in bed. Women go absolutely wild for men that surprise them and always keep them guessing in the bedroom. Keep her on her toes and spice up your sex life by constantly introducing new things in the bedroom that is the key to a happy and fulfilled sex life.
One of the best ways you can accomplish this is with different thrusting techniques. The key here is to mix and match if you keep doing just one thing, no matter how good she feels in the moment, you will become predictable and she will get bored, which is a death sentence to your sex life. You can have the best technique in the world, but if you do the same “trick” for hours, the novelty will wear off. Avoid this by introducing new methods every few minutes. This’ll keep her coming back for more that night, the next day, and beyond.
Here are a few tips to get you started:
One of the easiest ways to introduce variety into your thrusting techniques is by changing the speed and tempo of your thrusting. Go fast for 10-20 seconds, then pause and go really slow for the next minute. Have a dozen shallow thrusts before going all in with the deep ones. Vary the speed and depth that way she can’t predict what you will do next. Of course, common sense applies here. If she is grabbing you and telling you to go faster or deeper, don’t suddenly slow down that will just piss her off. Watch her reactions and modify to that. On the other hand, if you feel you are near an ejaculation, it would be best if you slow down.
It’s usually best to start slowly and then escalate. If you’re just starting with sex, don’t start jackhammering right away. She might not be that wet yet and it will be unpleasant for her. Next, start off with slow thrusts for a few minutes and then introduce more speed and variety. Slow thrusts should be the opposite of wild jackhammering. Take your time and make sure your strokes are long, hard, and deep. To do this, you can use positions that don’t facilitate thrusting, but are great for deep penetration. This includes spoons position, or if you’re looking for a challenge, seated position. Sit upright in a chair or on the edge of the bed and have her straddle you, for deep penetration.
Thrusting techniques are what it takes to deliver electrifying orgasms up and down your woman’s spine, but they’re only useful if you’ve got the stamina to take her down the path to pleasure. Studies have shown that the average duration of sex is a measly 6 minutes, but also, that most women require at least 15 minutes of penetration to orgasm. The best way, hands down, to rock her world is to last longer in bed. No matter what techniques you use, if you can’t control your orgasm, you’re facing an uphill battle to keep your woman satisfied in bed.