How to Use a Vibrator!

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By Lee & Jessica, Owners of DiskretAdultLife, September 24th, 2018

Have you ever wondered exactly how to use a vibrator for the most pleasure? It’s come to our attention through research and testimonies most women are using their vibrator completely wrong! After reading through this guide of tips and examples for the next time you pull out your trusty vibrator, you will have a mind-blowing experience.

We are NOT here to say if you want to know how to use a vibrator for the best orgasm you need to do a double twisted pretzel position with a $2000 dollar vibrator. Most men and women get this vision in their head that they need to purchase an extremely expensive vibrator to get the best experience. Another stereotype is a difficult masturbation position might give them that extra intense orgasm. This is not how to use a vibrator! We will explain exactly what kinds of vibrators you should be looking at, along with how to use a vibrator for the best experience.

Picking out a Vibrator

The first step in how to use a vibrator for the best experience is picking out a vibrator that fits your style. Not every all vibrators are equal! Once you pick out a style and a trusted retailer or manufacturer you are all set to go. So, let us help break things down for you:

  • Vibrator Power:

All vibrators are powered and if you want to know how to use a vibrator for the most pleasure, we highly suggest a USB rechargeable vibrator. You really only have two options, battery powered or USB rechargeable.how to use a vibrator rabbit

We have found the battery powered vibrators tend to generally be of lesser quality. They are cheaper but won’t last as long and are not as durable as the USB rechargeable vibrators. That’s because pressure can distort the internal plastic pieces, or the battery will corrode over time.

The USB rechargeable vibrators are convenient and hold a charge for up to 10 days. Plus most are waterproof. So, you won’t have to worry about it dying right during your most pleasurable experiences.

  • Size of Vibrator

When understanding how to use a vibrator the size of it will drastically make a difference. You need something that gives you a “fullness” feeling but not so large it is uncomfortable or awkward to use. If you are a beginner, start with something slim and under 8 inches.

If you are more experienced with using a vibrator, perhaps something with some girth and curve to it might suit you best. Only you can determine what size vibrator works best, and the only way you will learn is through experience.

Start small and work your way up, if you go to large to start it may ruin your masturbation experience entirely. Not to mention if it’s to large you will never use it.

Type of Vibrator:

There are a lot of different types of vibrators on the market and understanding how to use a vibrator is unique to each type. We will explain the main types of vibrators and how to use it for the best experience possible.

  • Clitoral Stimulation Vibrators:

There are vibrators made specifically to stimulate the clitoris and others that are penetrative vibrators that have clitoris stimulation added on.

  • Clitoral Suction Stimulation:

The main types of vibrators made specifically to stimulate the clitoris usually have pulse wave technology that creates a suction over the clitoris. The most popular types of vibrators like this are the Womanizer and the Sona by Lelo.lelo classy sex toy sonic pulse pink

If you want to know how to use a vibrator of this kind, its quite simple. First pick out the nozzle that fits over your clitoris the best. The nozzle will be on the tip of the vibrator and made from silicone, it will be soft and have a hole in the center. Just place the small, medium, and large tip over your clitoris to see which one lines up best.

Next turn the unit on and press the tip against your arm this will show you the suction power. Adjust the suction with the “+” or “- “until you feel it set properly. Place a small amount of lube over your clit (will create a better suction) then align the nozzle on your clit. Not a ton of pressure is required as it will do the sucking for you.

A lot of women find these vibrators to be sensory overload, most can achieve orgasm in just 1-5 minutes with a vibrator like this. Some women prefer to just have the external vibration on the end of a penetrative sex toy to best.

  • External Clitoral Stimulation

This is how to use a vibrator that gives external clitoral stimulation along with penetrative stimulation. First, lube up the vibrator, both on the vibrator tip and the clitoral stimulator tip. Slide the vibrator in until the clitoral stimulator tip is hitting your clitoris. This can take some time to figure out proper depth and angle to truly stimulate your clitoris. Once you find both the angle and depth, work yourself into a good rhythm, in and out, rocking up and down to stimulate the clitoris and g-spot. Don’t forget you can adjust the rhythm of the vibration and intensity of the vibration to find that “sweet spot”.how to use a vibratorexternal vibrator, how to use a vibrator

 

  • G-Spot Vibrators

Want to know how to use a vibrator that is made specifically for the G-spot? First you need tG-spot vibrator, how to use a vibratoro find one that conforms to your body just right. This is no easy task, ever G-spot is located in the same general area but not the exact same spot for all woman. If you insert your fingers into the vagina facing upwards (towards the stomach), about 2-3 inches in you will feel a patch that has the same texture as a raspberry. This is your G-spot!

Find a vibrator that has a curve the same contour as your body towards this patch. Once you find the right vibrator you will be able to continually hit this spot without having to make any awkward movements. Most G-spot vibrators will have a slight bend, nothing serious and nothing straight will hit this spot with ease.

  • Straight Vibrators

Want to know how to use a vibrator for beginners? This is back to basics with the straight vibrator. Sometimes simple is the best way to go. I highly suggest a straight vibrator for first time users, it will make learning how to use a vibrator easier and doesn’t require much technique. A dildo will work great for beginners too. It’s hard to feel uncomfortable with a straight vibrator or dildo. If you want to involve your partner in your masturbation sessions, it’s a perfect way for him or her to learn as well. Just make sure the girth and length are adequate for your body time and go to town!

Vibrator Material:

The different types of vibrator materials out there is astonishing. It can be overwhelming at times. Not to mention dangerous. It’s important to purchase a vibrator that is made from quality material or it could break down with lubes or direct lighting. Three things to keep in mind that will keep you safe and happy. Trust in the retailer, trust in the manufacturer, and price. Don’t cheap out on something you plan to use in the most sensitive cavity of your body. Also, don’t cheap out on something that can bring you years of pleasure if properly made.

Quality is important to us at Diskret and it should be for you as well. Some of the top manufactures to trust are Diskret, LELO, FunFactory, We-Vibe, Rianne’s, Womanizer, JeJoue, Jimmyjane, B-Vibe, Zalo, Doxy, Le Wand, Nexus, Lovense, and more

You tend to get what you pay for when it comes to sex toys. Price range to stick to for the highest quality toys that are still extremely functional is $40-$225 in our opinion. If you pay much more than this is it would be considered a luxury vibrator. At that point you are paying for the look or material more than the functionality and technology. If you purchase something that was originally $40 but is now miraculously 50%-80% off! You have fallen into the sex toy industry traps that catch a lot of people, along with disappointing a lot of people.

Quality Vibrator:

When you pay for a $40-$200-dollar vibrator expect some special features. It shouldn’t be basic for that kind of money. Some common but very useful features to look for are:

  • Waterproof vibrators
  • USB-Chargeable vibrators
  • Long distance controls
  • Remote controlled vibrators
  • Sync with your phone vibrators
  • Stainless-steel vibrators
  • Multiple vibration modes
  • Quite vibrators

How to Use a Vibrator for the Best Experience:

So now that you have a quality vibrator picked out, you need to know how to use a vibrator for the best experience! A lot of woman are dropping the ball when it comes to this and trying one or two of the tips below can drastically improve your sex toy experiences.

  • Set the Mood:

It sounds silly to light some candles or play some smooth music just to masturbate with your vibrator. But setting the mood is important part of letting your body fully relax before masturbating. It can be a glass of wine in the tub, or a relaxing massage but it is important to clear your mind of all stress before masturbating. This will allow you to achieve orgasm much easier.

However, don’t make orgasm the goal! It is perfectly okay to masturbate and not fully achieve orgasm. It will bring a lot of pleasure and relieve stress either way. But if you focus on the orgasm to hard, it will become more difficult to obtain it.

  • Use Lots of Lube on Your Vibrator

This one goes without saying, but lube is very important when masturbating with a vibrator. Yes, the vagina creates its own natural lube which is great. However, keep lube in mind to make things extra wet, slippery, and fun.personal lubricant water based

If you plan on masturbating for a whole evening (which we highly recommend trying sometime) lube will help you go for hours on end. What type of lube should you try? You have a ton of options but start with something water-based that is not sensitive to skin. It will also keep your sex toys in good condition.

  • Grab a Partner

Want to know how to use a vibrator for maximum pleasure! Grab your partner and let them use the vibrator on you! Nobody said a solo masturbation session is bad, it’s just a great way to spice up your sex life by involving your partner.

They can use the vibrator in the beginning to warm you up, or at the end to finish you off. It is fun and easy to incorporate a sex toy in! Never stop experimenting, and never stop exploring your sexual fantasies.

  • Watch Porn

Try watching porn with your vibrator for a solo session. Porn is a great way to get turned on and start things off. Just remember if you’re with your partner, don’t ignore them.

  • Take Your Time

This is very important when learning how to use a vibrator. Never rush your sex session. It just leaves a bad taste in your mouth about the whole experience. If you only have 5 minutes until the kids get home, just hold off or engage in a “quickie”. A quickie has its time and place, like when orgasm is not the goal and it’s just for a little bit of fun and pleasure.

If you want to use your vibrator right, make sure you block off your calendar, put that phone down (unless it’s for porn), and get fully in tune with your body. Let your body relax and relieve all the stress from the daily grind. Start slow and work your body into a big ball of fiery passion and pleasure!

  • RELAX

I know we said it before, but for your masturbation session relaxing is key. If you mind is wandering or worried about something else, it will be hard to focus on the pleasure that vibrator is bringing. It may take an hour to fully unwind from a stressful day, and that’s okay. Take your time, relax and enjoy your new sex toy!

 

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