Sex Tips & Advice

26 Kinky Sex Ideas To Blow Your Mind!

By: Jessica & Lee Founders of Diskret_Adult_Life ( Kinky Sex Ideas )

 

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So, you want to spice of your sexy life?

 

Some couples think “doggy style” is a super kinky sex idea… While others that are a bit more experienced might be looking for something much more dramatic!

 

I’m here to discuss sexual fantasies that will send you and your partner on a journey of never ending, mind-blowing pleasure.

 

“Doggy style” just isn’t going to cut it for Diskret…

 

These kinky sex ideas are not all for the “faint of heart” and for what I would consider a more adventurous couple.

 

If you’re in a new relationship, these kinky sex ideas are by no means off limits, just make sure you communicate to your partner in advance.

 

If you communicate these kinky sex ideas and are on the same page… There is no limit to what the two of you can experience.

 

Here are the huge benefits of trying new things and satisfying those sexual desires you’ve only dreamed of:

 

  • Huge release of built up sexual tension. When you can satisfy your sexual desires you feel more relaxed, accomplished, and confident.
  • Build a much stronger relationship with your partner! These kinky sex ideas require trust, communication, and a strong bond with your partner to be preformed safely.
  • Be confident about satisfying your partner’s needs and wants. They will always look to you for sexual fulfillment!
  • “Life’s to short to have boring sex”. It’s time to strive for maximum pleasure and share that experience with someone!
  • Leave no stone unturned. How can you know if a sexual fantasy will lead to the most powerful orgasm of your life, unless you try it?!

 

The Best Kinky Sex Ideas:

 

Sometimes keeping things simple can lead to the best kinky sex ideas.

 

You don’t have to start by jumping right into the deep end. Start with simple changes that can make drastic changes to your sex life.

 

If you want to keep things simple yet add a big side of kink to your sex life, try this:

 

  • Being Spontaneous:

 

Such a simple thing like doing it when your partner least expects it can add a huge level of kink factor!

For example: The next time your partner is in the kitchen, shower, or even watching T.V. just take control of the situation! Show them how bad you want it, whisper in their ear, and go down on them right when they least expect it!

You don’t have to change the way you enjoy penetrative sex, you might already know exactly how you like it, but by doing this at an unexpected time can be a huge turn on for the both of you!

 

  • Bondage:

 

Nothing screams kink like bondage!

 

There are many forms of bondage and different degrees depending on what you’re looking for. But for some $15.00 ropes or cuffs you can add a huge boost to your sex life!

 

Light bondage includes cuffing or tying your partner up with their hands behind their back as a form of dominance and foreplay.

 

Don’t get me wrong this can make things 10x hotter! But there are varying degrees on which people take bondage too.

 

The more serious bondage is a form of Shibari. Which is art, kink, submission, dominance… all bundled into one. These bondage sessions can take hours and require a high level of experience and skill! You can read my full blog on it here.

 

  • Sex Toys:

 

Want 1000 new ways you can experience more pleasure with your partner?

 

Want to make this extra kinky?!

 

You’re going to need the right tools for the job. That’s were sex toys and accessories come in.

 

Ropes, wand vibrators, remote controlled vibrators, cock rings, cock extenders, butt plugs, blindfolds, pinwheels… you name it.

 

These accessories can add massive waves of pleasure for him or her. They don’t require much skill to use and have been making couples extra kinky since the Ancient Egyptian times!

 

If you want to take your sex life to the next level chances are your going to need one of these!

 

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  • Location, Location, Location:

 

Location can add a big sense of risky foreplay to any situation. Plus it doesn’t cost you anything and turn up the kink with your partner!

 

While I can’t promote sexual behavior in public places (its illegal so partake at your own risk) you can do it safely in less risky places.

 

Perhaps in your hot tub, or in the car that’s parked in your garage… Hell even the stairs of your place make things fun and interesting.

 

Remember you don’t have to engage in actual penetrative sex to get the full effect. Just a slight rub outside of their pants to let them know what your thinking of works wonders. Try making out or grouping in a semi-public place…

Then leave the real love making for when you get home and rip each other’s clothes off!

 

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  • Role Play Sex:

 

Help me nurse Wendy… I’ve had an erection lasting longer than 4 hrs!”

 

Okay that’s a little “cheesy”… I know. But you get the point. Role play sex is what kinky sex ideas are all about!

 

Take that fantasy you’ve been thinking about and act it out! What’s sexier than living your dream! Details are critical, and it might be a bit awkward if it’s your first-time trying role play sex. But after a while you can really find your groove!

 

Think about that fantasy to every last detail. Then communicate with your partner, pick up the supplies you’ll need, and give it a go!

 

Another simple, yet kinky sex idea to make things hot!

 

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Here are some great role play sex ideas!

 

  • Sex Positions

 

Mixing up oral sex positions, penetrative sex positions, even non-contact positions can make things kinky.

They don’t require anything but patience and your adventurous side!

 

Extreme sex positions should be discussed with your partner ahead of time, the rest you can show them on the fly. Again, being spontaneous with it can be half the fun!

 

Finding a great sex position that works for both of you isn’t the easiest. You should start with one you really enjoy and then put a slight twist on it until you become more experienced.

 

Here is my favorite list of sex positions for all your kinky sex ideas!

 

Kinky Ideas:

 

The important thing to remember when trying kinky sex ideas is some will be mind-blowing, life-changing experiences and others will just be mehh…

 

Anything that perks your interest should be communicated with your partner and given a whirl! If it turns out mehhh so be it, but you can’t say you didn’t try! It will also make you more open to trying new things with your partner!

 

What can make or break a great kinky idea is the trust and communication between the two of you. Make sure that you are on the same page before trying these!

 

  • Blindfold your partner and use hot and cold sensations all over their body. Things like stainless steel or glass sex toys work great by just running under hot or cold water.

 

  • Blindfold your partner and lead them somewhere new. They might think they are being blindfolded before sex in the bedroom, until you lead them into the bathroom shower, kitchen chair, or living room couch!

 

  • Tying them up adds a big level of kink and leaves endless possibilities. Try tying their hands and feet up before kissing up and down their body excruciatingly slow! Use an ankle spreader bar to leave them feeling vulnerable, hogtie them, or use a Chasity device on his cock!

 

  • Use impact play. You can spank or use various types of whips to ramp up the kinky sex play. Just remember to tread lightly and communicate. There zones you should never hit either. Do some basic safety research before using a sex crop, flogger, whip, or paddle.

 

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  • Use a punishment and reward system. Make your own set of rules before engaging in sex. For example: if he cums before her, he gets a spanking. Or while preforming 69 the first to cum has to finish the partner off however they say….

 

  • Rough him up with dominance and submissive play. Have her use her nails down your back during penetrative sex. Have her use her mouth and teeth to suck, lick, and bite until you’re satisfied!

 

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  • Rough her up with dominance and submissive play by pulling her hair, slapping her butt, wrestling on top of her!

 

  • Try degradation & humiliation play. Becoming more and more popular among the kink community, degradation & humiliation can be extremely fun if you both enjoy and respect this kind of play.

 

  • Talk dirty to them! One of the hottest forms of foreplay can be the anticipation leading to whats coming. Make that extra focused by telling your partner exactly what you’re going to do to them before you do it! Check out my complete guide on talking dirty here!

 

  • Watch porn together. One of my favorite kinky sex ideas is to watch porn together. It can be a huge turn on for both of you, knowing your partner is watching it too! Start to have sex or foreplay with it going in the background. Whip out a sex toy and use it on yourself; making your partner watch you and the porn, or be generous and use the sex toy on them!

 

 

Freaky Sex:

 

Ready to take things to the next level?

 

The basic kinky sex ideas just not cutting it for you?

 

Been there and done that before?

 

How about something a bit more extreme?

 

Okay well let’s talk about some freaky sex ideas then!

 

These are for only trusted, committed relationships that are very open with communication and consent. It’s important if you want to try any of these freaky sex ideas you verbally communicate that first with your partner(s).

 

So, lets get this party started. Here are the top freaky sex ideas to give a whirl if your up for the challenge.

 

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  • Voyeurism- Voyeurism is the idea of involving others in your sex life. You may enjoy watching your partner have sex with another person or enjoy having your partner watch you engage in foreplay and sex with someone else. It can be a huge turn on watching your partner knowing you can’t touch and stimulating yourself or simply enjoying the show! But trust is a big one here, so understandably not for everyone!

 

  • Sex Clubs- An entire blog should be dedicated to this one (coming soon). But sex clubs can actually be quite varied, and a lot of fun. Sex clubs are often styled as typical nightclubs, with room for socializing and dancing, but usually include more private areas with beds and other kinky props for sex play. Research options near you and check it out if interested.

 

  • Public Play- Try engaging in foreplay or anything that turns you on while in a public or semi-public environment. It’s not exactly legal so use your personal judgement wisely. But she can wear a skirt with no panties, use a discreet butt plug, or even a vibrator controlled with a phone. Let your partner control the vibes as you get off in public places! Talk about a super kinky and sexy date night!

 

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  • Virtual Public Play- Some couples get off on knowing others are watching them. You can even do this in the comfort of your home by streaming online for others to watch your kinky sex! Just be aware once its online, even streaming, it can be made public for all to see. This is why many couples opt for there faces to not be in the videos or images.

 

  • Sex Role Play- Live out your deepest, darkest, dirtiest desires with your partner! Ever had some freaky fantasies? Talk to your partner about them in excruciating detail! Load up on any accessories you might need… Then give it a whirl! Some freaky roleplay ideas might be:

 

  • Being “forced” to have sex.
  • Getting blackmailed
  • Stranger you just meet at the bar.
  • Having your innocence corrupted by someone highly experienced…

 

  • Edge Play- Build him or her up just to the point of orgasm and then stop. Let them relax and build them back up again. You can do this multiple times… Depending on just how bad you want to tease them. When you do finally let them release it can be a full body experience, giving them a very long-lasting climax that is extremely intense!

 

  • Double Penetration- This is where she is penetrated in her anus and vagina at the same time. It can be done with two males, two sex toys, or a male and a sex toy. These multiple forms of stimulation simultaneously lead to blended orgasms (highest rated way to climax among women).

 

  • Prostate Play- Guys, when you orgasm through prostate play it feels 33% more intense than your standard orgasm through stimulating the penis. Why? Because prostate leads to full body orgasms that last longer and can be repeated one after another, instead of requiring a rest period. Try a quality vibrating butt plug or anal beads. Really ramp up the pleasure and use prostate play with a partner. Penetrate them while you have a butt plug in for the ultimate O!

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  • Use Sex Toys- Don’t forget to use sex toys to warm yourself up, warm your partner up, or finish each other off! Nobody usually times their orgasm perfectly in sync with their partner. Don’t leave them or yourself hanging. Incorporate kinky sex ideas by bring out those jaw dropping sex toys!

 

Sexual Fantasy:

 

Not everyone’s kinky sex ideas are the same. Some want extreme while others just want to be a little more adventurous.

 

We covered some basic and extreme ideas above that are more common sexual fantasies most share.

 

If you want a long list of sexual fantasies but not the most common among our society, I really enjoy the ABC’s of kink from badgirlsbible.

 

In the end, only you know exactly what you desire most. It’s what you dream about, it what you fantasize about. The next time you find your mind wandering, pay attention to the details. What are he or she wearing, what exactly are they doing to you, how are you responding?

 

These details are important for reenacting your fantasy. These small details can turn average sex into explosive fantasy sex! It’s up to you and your partner to find those hidden gems from deep within.

 

Have a sexual fantasy you didn’t see on our list? Want to share? Simply log-in and drop a comment below!

 

Have a question? Drop a comment below and I’ll be sure to respond! Thank you!

 

 

Remember to spread the love! Share this blog with “@diskretadultlife” on any major social media platform (FB,IG, Twitter) and we will pick a winner each month for a free orgasmic couples sex toy  you can use during your kinky sex play!

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