Sex Tips & Advice

Quiet Vibrators: The Most Peaceful Way To Get Off!

By: Jessica & Lee Founders of Diskret_Adult_Life (Quiet Vibrators)

There is a laundry list of reasons to use a quiet vibrator!

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Everyone is interested in quiet vibrators for different reasons, but the most important thing is that it’s discreet and not distracting.

The last thing people want when focusing hard to get off is a loud buzzing noise in their ear… I get it.

If the noise doesn’t bother you when alone, what about when others are present? If you plan to use a vibrator with a partner or even if with others outside your room…

You probably don’t want a loud buzz drawing others attention!

 

My Experience:

 

I’ll start with explaining my experience; you might be able to relate.

At the minimum, you will quickly understand why I decided to investigate and gravitate towards quiet vibrators.

I used to live in a tiny city apartment with my boyfriend. As you can imagine like most cities, there is a serious lack of personal space.

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I heard some really weird and crazy shit at night from random apartments throughout my complex. To this day, I still wonder what the hell was going on in there!

But needless to say, the walls were paper thin, and all the doors were hollow.

I quickly found myself gravitating towards quite vibrators, any loud vibrators I would try to muffle under the sheets and blankets.

It never really worked out with loud vibrators for me. Even if they were muffled enough to prevent neighbors from hearing them, it would be too distracting worrying about others hearing it that it was difficult to climax.

So, the only solution for me to relax, fantasize and enjoy the pleasure to an orgasmic state of mind was to use a quiet vibrator.

That came with a set of its own issues as well though… I’m a powerqueen!

I really leaned that after getting my own house and having free reign of the loudest most powerful vibrators known to man. I enjoy the powerful vibes, they make me orgasm harder, longer, and faster.

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One of the biggest trade offs with quiet vibrators is power, but I’ll get into that later. I’ll show you some great solutions and quiet vibrators that will still do the trick done!

 

Why Would I Want a Quiet Vibrator?

 

Now that you know my personal experience on why quiet vibrators were more a necessity than a “nice to have” product.

Here are the other main reasons women continue to look for the best quiet vibrators.

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  • Live with your parents“Mom and Dad want to know what that buzzing sound from your room is?”

 

  • Kids are home – Maybe you have kids of your own, although they might not associate a buzz with mommy trying to get off. They may try to investigate the sound. That never ends well!

 

  • Have a roommate? – A sock on the door handle might do the trick, but wouldn’t things just be easier if they didn’t know what’s going on in your room?

 

  • Public play – While I can’t suggest you do something illegal, lots of women love the risk factor involved in public stimulation. A quiet vibrator is must for these types of situations!

 

  • Using with a partner – Its hard to concentrate, talk dirty, or fantasize when you have a loud buzzing in your ear. Your partner might love the stimulation but just can’t handle the noise!

 

  • Distracting during solo play – Sometimes no matter how turned on you are, when you get that loud buzzer going, you inevitably turn it off.

 Which brings us to our next topic. So, then what’s considered a quiet vibrator and acceptable to use?

 

What’s considered quiet?

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It really does depend on how sensitive you are to the noise. If you need complete and utter silence you will most likely need a non-powered sex toy. Such as a quality dildo.

PRO TIP:

If you need complete and utter silence, but absolutely love the vibration. Try an egg vibrator or vibrating ben-wa-balls. These can provide huge vibe power but due to being used inserted into your vagina, they don’t make noise! Some even have a remote so you can turn them on and off after being fully inserted!

For the rest of us who don’t mind a little noise but just don’t want the blaring buzz, there is a recommended dB level on vibrators.

That is anything under 50dB is considered “industry acceptable” noise level. Most of your high quality vibrators will run under 50dB. Everything on Diskret Adult Life is under 50dB.

Believe me, there are a lot of low-quality manufacturing companys out there that run their products at 70-80 dB.

Why?

Because it cost less to use cheap plastic and not insulate the vibration motor. So, they can cut cost at the expense of the user! Grrrr! Makes me frustrated even thinking about it.

I’ve been stuck with these before, and they end up in my trash due to the noise, if they don’t break first!

All this dB talk…

What is a dB and what do these levels mean to me?

A dB stands for decibel and it’s a unit of measurement for level of sound

Here is how it relates to things you hear on a daily basis:

10 dB: breathing

20 dB: whisper

30 dB: where I consider “Quiet Vibrators” to run

40 dB: modern refrigerator running

50 dB: rainfall (where typical quality vibrators run around)

60 dB: conversation in coffee shop

80 dB: alarm clock (where low-quality, junk vibrators run)

110 dB: car horn honking

120 dB: ambulance siren

140 dB: fireworks

150 dB: Jet take-off (eardrum rupture)

So, later on when I talk about the best quiet vibrators, they will all run in the 30dB range or less.

It’s difficult when shopping to find these vibrators online; typically all you get is a picture. But I do the digging into the specifications from the manufactures on the dB sound test for each vibrator.

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This is how I ensure I’m recommending a truly quiet vibrator. Plus I’ve used almost all of these personally!  😉

 

What Makes a vibrator quiet?

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Without getting too technical (I used to be an engineer by trade). Ill get into what actually causes a vibrator to rumble, buzz, and osculate.

The internal motors on the vibrator cause a sound wave. A sound wave is a transfer of energy as it travels away from the quiet vibrator.

Sound waves are formed when a vibrating object causes the surrounding medium to vibrate. Such as the silicone packed around it, the water you have it in, or the air that surrounds us.

A sounds volume depends on the energy put into making the sound wave.

Put simply; The more energy the louder it is.

Which is why the larger vibrating motors pack a punch, but come with a large amount of noise.

Now with modern day technology and materials, there are anomalies. Which lead us to quiet vibrators that still have some power…

It really depends on the type of material and internal motor that give us that power to noise ratio. I’m looking for the strongest motor with the least amount of noise.

Which gives us the best quiet vibrators!

This is a general rule but still holds true in 99% of the vibrators I test. The super powerful wand vibrators always come with the most noise.

 

Downfalls of a Quiet Vibrator:

 

While the list is not very long, unfortunately the quiet vibrator typically does have its few downfalls.

The first and most common is lack of power. Due to the smaller motors being used to reduce noise, they typically don’t have as much power.

It’s a constant battle between more power or less noise. There are few exceptions to this that made my list below for the best vibrators.

Another downfall (for some people) is size. If you want a super quiet vibrator it typically is a smaller package.

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Overall, smaller motors = less power = less noise.

However, if you want something quiet, you want it discreet, so some women want them small. It’s based on your personal preference.

 

The Best Quiet Vibrator:

 

If you want the best quiet vibrator, you should first break it out into what category of vibrator you’re looking for.

What type of stimulation do you want?

Do you want g-spot, vaginal, clitoral, couples penis, or butt stimulation?

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There is a long list of different types of vibrators for women in particular.

Once you know what type of vibrator you want based on how you plan to use it, you can then pick out the quietest from that category.

I will list the quietest vibrators below coming from various categories.

It doesn’t always apply to solo masturbation; you might like something less quiet than a bulldozer driving through your bedroom when you’re trying to get intimate with a partner too!

 

Quiet Vibrators for Women

 

#1 SYNC -$189.00

sync quiet vibrator

The Sync by We-Vibe is the highest rated couples vibrator year after year.

It gets the best reviews, sells the most, and brings satisfaction to couples all over the world.

The Sync is a internal / external vibrator worn by the women, that also allows the male to penetrate vaginally.

It provides him with rumbling sensations in his cock, while giving you g-spot and clitoral stimulation. I recommended it for slightly more advanced users, but works wonders for solo masturbation too!

It can hook up to your phone via an app, has 2 powerful vibrating motors, 100% waterproof, and USB-Rechargeable.

The best part about the sync?

It is whisper quiet!

Half of it, including one of the motors is inserted so it makes zero noise, the other motor is very quiet.

So, vibe solo or with a partner in peace and quiet!

It’s no wonder it has been featured in GQ, Women’s Health, Cosmo, and Refinery29!

#2 GiGi 2-  $134.99

Gigi 2, Lelo

Small, Quiet, Orgasmic pleasure in the palm of your hand!

The Lelo GiGi 2 has all the modern-day features packed into a versatile little 6.5 inch long vibrator that you can insert up to 3.7 inches.

It has a slight curve built for optimal g-spot stimulation and a flat broad head that is amazing for clitoral stimulation.

The deep powerful vibrations will rock you to the core all in a “uber-quiet” setting.

It comes in 4 different sleek, sexy, matt silicone finishes. With just a dab of lube, let the velvety soft silicone caress your most sensitive zones.

Heighten the experience and vibrations without the noisey motors! This quiet vibrator has always been at the top of my list!

 

#3 Smart Wand – 159.99

smart wand vibrator

It’s a super rare find.

A powerful wand vibrator that is quiet. When I say quiet, its slightly louder than a small “quiet vibrator” but still less noise than your average mid-grade vibrator.

But it packs one hellva punch! With huge vibration from a wireless wand, if you can deal with just slightly elevated noise, this wand is for you.

It’s also 100% waterproof so if you stick it underwater in the tub, you get some very unique pleasure sensation, and can reduce the noise factor even more!

But what makes it so “smart”?

The vibrations sense when the head is against your skin and naturally build in power and sensation. As soon as you remove it, it will drop the vibration back down until you press it against yourself again.

This is the smart mode if you desire to use it. Its amazing for edge play and learning to control your orgasm.

The ergonomic handle makes it super easy to lay back and enjoy direct clitoral stimulation without the need to bend your wrist or arm.

Feel the smartest, quietest wand on earth!

 

#4 Tango- $75.00

We Vibe Tango, sex toys for lesbians

Does it take two to Tango?

Hell No!

This is the best bullet vibrator on the market. Period!

One thing is for sure in the sex toy industry, nobody questions the power of the Tango. Its become a new industry standard. People rank their toys on a scale of (0-Tango) when it comes to power.

This small 3.5 inch bullet vibrator packs so much power it can be overstimulating for me! I can hardly handle the highest mode for any duration of time.

Some women love the power and require it to get off!

The Tango is made from a body-safe ABS plastic that is super durable. It has a tapered tip like my lipstick that allows for pinpoint pleasure on the clit.

It also happens to be a very quiet vibrator! I can not say the same about you during use though!

The moaning will be much louder than the vibrator itself!

It also has some great features like 100% waterproof, 8 vibe mode, and cleans up easy with just warm water & soap.

So, if you want small, powerful, and quiet. The clitoral stimulation from the Tango is second to none!

#5 Digit – $69.99

Hot Octopuss

The digit is the first high quality finger vibrator I’ve seen and used.

Its made by Hot Octopuss who is a worldwide manufacturer of high quality sex toys.

The digit is a small vibrator that has two loops to slide your fingers in. Once inserted, the vibrator becomes a natural extension of your body.

When I’m really worked up, you don’t even realize it’s a vibrator down there, it just feels like your fingers are now somehow magically energized!

In total its about 3.5 inches long and 2 inches wide. I use it as a broad flat paddle for clitoral stimulation and even insert it slightly too.

But it does become truly magical with a partner. Let them use it on their hand, or you can use it while they penetrate you. Either way, it brings amazing clitoral stimulation while being thrusted into for a mind blowing, full body orgasm!

It’s a new product so it does come with all the “nice to have” features too!

#6 Fifi -$109.99

Je Joue Fifi

This high-quality silent vibrator will send you into shock.

It uses a tapered head with a elegantly curved body and two vibrating nubs for the ultimate clitoral stimulation.

Thrust away until your heart desires, this quiet vibrator packs a punch. I really enjoy using the two nubs, centering my clit between the two.

Shocking my clit with high powered vibration from both sides!

The soft silicone and advanced features make this vibrator one of a kind. Just try to keep your moaning to a minimum as the slight humming will never give this vibrator away.

#7 Ditto -$117.00

Vibrating Butt Plugs, sex toys for anal

This is a quiet vibrator, but not designed for vaginal use.

The Ditto by We-Vibe is a high-quality butt plug that is versatile and user friendly.

It can hook up to your phone and be used as a wireless remote controller! It’s made from flexible body-safe silicone that is 100% waterproof too!

The Ditto yields two different vibrating motors, one in the base and one in the tip. Most butt plugs only have one so you know it sends some serious vibe power!

Charge it with your standard USB cable and it has a 2-year warranty, so you know it was built to last!

I love mine, I’ve had it almost a year now and still holds a charge after 3 months!

 

Quiet Vibrators for Men

 

#1 Pivot – $110.00

we vibe pivot

Who said quiet vibrators were only built for women? Although the Pivot will give her as much pleasure as you guys…

The Pivot is a super high-quality cock ring designed for couple’s stimulation.

It slides around the base of the male’s cock, turning his shaft into a magical super-hard vibrator!

The constriction the Pivot provides will keep him rock hard and make him last longer in bed.

Great for beginners introducing sex toys to the bedroom, or advanced users who love the non-intrusive clitoral vibes.

A hands free, easy orgasm for both of you!

#2 Atom Plus -$99.00

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The Atom Plus is the worlds first dual motor vibrating cock ring.

Correction… It’s a cock and ball ring. There is a difference! 

This quiet vibrator slides around the base of the cock and stretches back over around the balls. This gives him perineum simulation ( sensitive zone between anus and balls).

So, use it to jack off with, or send your partner into the stratosphere. This cock and ball ring provides big power to both of you.

It’s body-safe, 100% waterproof, and USB-rechargeable. Comes with a 1 year warranty and a life time of orgasms!

My partner uses it on me all the time. From the woman’s side, its incredible and judging by how often he pulls it out to use, he really enjoys it too!

 

#3 Pulse iii Duo -$149.00

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This quiet vibrator is not your typical masturbation sleeve.

Guys you can slide this on with your favorite lube, and use a remote to control it! It’s a completely hands-free orgasm!

If you don’t want to control it, let your partner. Or at a minimum you can use one hand to stroke the Pulse iii Duo up and down your cock while you control the vibes in the other hand.

Another way I’ve used it is stroked my partner with it and let him change the vibes according. 

The versatility is great and each new way of using this masturbation sleeve is kinkier than the last!

It’s built by Hot Octopuss and comes with all the amazing features you could ask for with an extended warranty.

#4 Rianne S -$45.00

 

Rianne S Cock Ring, quiet vibrator

This is a new unique cock ring. I own it and its very quiet! Not much more than your slight rumbling going on.

Its sleek, sexy, and pleaureable design will have your partner screaming with pleasure!

It uses two clitoral stimulating nubs and has a slick gold backing plate for the guy’s comfort. With a textured rib which stimulates my vagina too!

It has a super cool blue LED glow to it when turned on and a bunch of different vibration modes.

Easy, fun, kinky, and pleasurable. What more could you ask for from a cock ring!

Remember to spread the love! Share this blog with #diskretadultlife on any major social media and we will pick a winner each month for a free high quality Quiet Vibrator!

 

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