The 10 Best Vibrators of 2019 to Buy Your Girlfriend!

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By Lee & Jessica, Owners of DiskretAdultLife, Jan. 1st, 2019

Picking out the best vibrator for your girlfriend is no easy task! You have hundreds of different models, sizes, materials, and of course types of stimulation! So where should you begin? We broke it down into the best vibrator styles, brands, and functions. If you’re anything like me… let’s just keep things simple and effective.

We want you to find the best vibrator possible for your girlfriend, the only issue is we can not say here… buy this exact one! Every vibrator has its own unique style and function. Plus, you’re the one who knows what type of simulation your girlfriend likes the most. So here is a rundown of the best vibrators in 2019 that fall into each specific category.

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Finding the Best Vibrator 101:

I wish it were as simple as here… pick this vibrator! But every girl is unique, and they all enjoy different forms of pleasure. If you’re read an article about the top vibrators and all it does is push product down your throat, without telling you anything about how to pick the correct one… good luck! It’s a complete gamble at that point. Here is how I would break it down:

  • The Type of Stimulation
  • Size
  • Material
  • Features
  • Brand
  • Price

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The Types of Vibrators:

All women enjoy different types of stimulation. Only you know what your lady likes best. Here is a brief description of the main types of stimulation and how you know if that’s what she enjoys the most:

  • Straight Penetration:

It’s possible your girlfriend enjoys standard penetration the most. If she can orgasm from straight missionary sex positions… That’s a good clue that straight penetration is more than enough for her. Not many women can orgasm from straight penetration alone so consider yourself lucky if that’s the case.

One of the best vibrators for straight penetration is the ISLA by Lelo. It has all the features one could ask for! Plus, it is great for beginner to intermediate level experienced users. Don’t be fooled by its basic shape… for some women, less is more!

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  • G-Spot Stimulation:

If you’re not already utilizing g-spot stimulation, your in for a real treat (or should I say your girlfriend is in for a treat). The g-spot is located about 2-3 inches inside a woman’s vagina facing upwards towards here belly button. It has the texture of a raspberry. When stimulated properly, with the right amount of pressure and speed of motion, it can bring any girl to orgasm very quickly.

A lot of the best vibrators are designed specifically to stimulate her g-spot. But the best vibrator for this would be the Rave or G-Kii. The G-Kii is slightly more expensive but the angle is programmable allowing you to hit her g-spot with ease. The Rave has your standard g-spot curve with a great features package and brand standing behind it.

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  • Clitoral Stimulation:

Another form of stimulation a lot of women prefer is clitoral stimulation. If your lady requires some clitoral stimulation to get off… you’re not alone! The clitoris sole purpose on women is to bring them pleasure. So why not utilize it?

New technology has allowed for some of the best vibrators for clitoral stimulation to be built in the last 5 years. They use pulse wave technology. It’s a small cup that applies suction to her clitoris using air. Most women who enjoy clitoral stimulation can get off in matter of 60 seconds with one of these vibrators.

The best vibrator that uses this amazing technology is the Sona Cruise or Womanizer.

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Not into the suction cup style? No worries… The best vibrator for direct clitoral stimulation is the We-Vibe Tango. This thing is simplistic in design but packs a hell of a punch! Not to mention the reviews around it are some of the highest ever seen for a clitoral vibrator.

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  • Anal Vibration:

Anal sex toys offer vibration as well. This can be another option for stimulation along with vaginal pleasure. If your girlfriend is into anal play, try out a simple anal bead or butt plug to start things off! Anal play can be an extremely pleasurable road to go down for both men and women. Yes guys, you too can enjoy anal play. Check out how to experience a prostate orgasm here.

  • Blended Orgasms:

What’s the best orgasm she’s ever had? Chances are it was a combination of the above different types of stimulation. Maybe it was clitoral stimulation along with deep penetration, or perhaps it was g-spot stimulation with clitoral stimulation. According to most female testimonies, a blended orgasm has been their most intense and longest orgasms. Does your girlfriend enjoy blended orgasms?

So, what is the best vibrator for a blended orgasm? The best vibrator for a blended orgasm is the Iconic Rabbit 2.0 (which offers penetration with clitoral stimulation) or the Enigma (which offers g-spot and clitoral stimulation).

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  • Couples Stimulation:

I know what you guys are thinking… But what about us?! I want some pleasure too… don’t we all? Well have no fear, couples sex toys are some of the best vibrators on the market as well! These sex toys will bring both of you extreme pleasure, at the same time! Most are very basic and built for couples starting out on their sex toy adventures.

What’s the best vibrator for couples? I highly recommend the Pivot cock ring or Tiani 3 couple’s vibrator. A cock ring is one of the best vibrators for men and women, its worn around the shaft and with each normal thrust of the man, it hits the women’s clitoris. It also applies constriction and vibration to the penis, so it is extremely pleasurable for both of you.

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Size Matters:

Size does matter when picking out a vibrator for your girlfriend. Here is what matters the most: “Bigger Is Not Always Better” I know this goes against what most men think. Sure, some women like abnormally large penis and sex toys but majority of the female population enjoy standard size.

You know what your girlfriend enjoys and finds satisfying. Don’t try to buy something larger in hopes it will provide even more pleasure, it simply doesn’t work like this. Sure, she needs a “fullness” feeling but nothing beyond that. The vibration adds another form of stimulation already. Thus, you don’t need large sex toys unless you know that is exactly what she is in to.

Material:

Most vibrators are made from silicone. It is to difficult to manufacture the vibration into something like steel or stone. However, I want you to be aware of all the different kinds of materials that sex toys come in. Perhaps your girlfriend would love a crystal dildo and is okay with the fact it doesn’t vibrate.

One major thing to consider when purchasing a vibrator is the material. It needs to be 100% body safe silicone. Which usually means it needs to be 100% pure silicone. A lot of manufactures from overseas are making knock off vibrators for cheap, but because pure silicone is expensive, they stick additives “like silicone” into it. These can be harmful to the body if used. The saying “you get what you pay for” applies here. You need to invest in her pleasure, and wellbeing. That requires a quality, trusted manufacture and retailer. At Diskret, we’ve done the research for you… but if you go elsewhere, make sure you know what you are buying.

  • Steel:

Steel sex toys are becoming more popular for good reason. Make sure they are 100% Stainless-Steel grade, or you might have a mix of metal that could potentially not be body safe. The steel sex toys for women have some great weight behind them and are extremely durable. If you break a steel sex toy, I’d love to hear how you managed that! The other benefit to them is they are non-porous. This leaves little room for bacteria to stick and easy to clean. However, most steel sex toys do not vibrate.

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  • Glass:

Glass sex toys for women are sleek and sexy. They come in extravagant colors shapes and sizes. They are like works of art and usually hand-made. Things to watch for with glass is that they are shatter proof and use body-safe glass. Similar to steel, the glass toys are non-porous. Most you can even stick in the dish washer for an easy clean. Same as steel though, its hard to make glass with an internal vibrator.

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  • Silicone:

With Silicone, my general rule is stick to quality manufactures and retailer to ensure the silicone doesn’t have “Sil-a gel” or phthalates in it. It needs to be 100% pure silicone and unfortunately there are a lot of “knock-offs” out there. Regulations are starting to help protect them but stick with the quality companies. This is where you find the best vibrators!

  • Stone / Crystal:

A lot of crystal and stone products are being hand carved or polished into works of art that can bring pleasure as well! Just have common sense when you look over the sex toy and make sure you don’t see any sharp edges, or pieces that could break off. Other than that, they are usually body safe.

Features:

Features are very important when considering the best vibrators. Think about how you want to use it. Are you going to use it in the shower or hot tub? If so, you probably want it to be waterproof. Does replacing the batteries bother you? If so, you will want a USB rechargeable vibrator. You get the idea… Here are the main features to look for when purchasing the best vibrators:

  • 100% Waterproof (different from splash proof)
  • 100% body-safe material
  • Hyperallergic
  • Various Vibration Patterns
  • Various Vibration Levels of Intensity
  • Remote Controlled (hands free orgasms)
  • USB Rechargeable
  • Safe to use with lube
  • Travel case included
  • Durability
  • Ergonomics for control
  • Flexible
  • Quite
  • Memory Function
  • Ideal Size

Vibrators Brand:

Lucky for all of us, multiple manufacturers and brands have caught onto the idea that customers are into paying more for better pleasure. This means that you have a plethora of luxury vibe brands to choose from when you go shopping!

Keep your eyes out for Diskret, LELO, FunFactory, We-Vibe, Rianne’s, Womanizer, JeJoue, Jimmyjane, B-Vibe, Zalo, Doxy, Le Wand, Nexus, and Lovense. As you become more accustomed to shopping for sex toys, your eyes will quickly be able to pick out the “quality vibrators” from most retailers by the look, packaging, and the price tag.

Ideally you find a trusted retailer that offers verities of each of these brands. You can then pick what intrigues you from there. Some retailers specialize in offering you anything and everything while other trusted retailers offer you only the best vibrators.

You Get What You Pay for:

Its my general rule of thumb when it comes to sex toys. Can you buy a cheap sex toy that provides an orgasm? Absolutely! However, don’t expect it to last very long… Most of the cheap sex toys are built from low quality material, potentially harmful material, and usually not very durable. It also has the potential to ruin the entire sex toy experience for you.

Start with something quality that will provide long lasting orgasms for her. Here is how I would break down the price ranges:

$5-25 dollars: Really not worth your time or money. Unless you want something just to test the type of stimulation…

$40-180: This is a big range I know. But this is where the bulk of quality sex toys land. The best vibrators with a bunch of functions will end you on the upper end of this. While the simple, but quality anal beads or plugs will land you on the lower end of this.

$200+: Yes, they make all sorts of sex toys that fall anywhere from 200 dollars to 2,000 dollars. These are niche sex toys that are more of an art piece than a sex toy. Of course, they provide pleasure, but they are usually hand crafted by true artists who spend countless hours making them.

The Best Vibrator Wrap-Up:

After all this, we have given you some great options but ultimately you need to understand your girlfriend and what types of pleasure she craves. If you are totally unsure of what she wants, start with a basic beginner sex toy and work your way up from there. Finding the perfect vibrator is no easy task… it requires trial and error along with lots of pleasurable testing.

The good thing is… I don’t think either of you will complain about the journey to finding the perfect vibrator. It will be fun, pleasurable and allow you to learn each other’s body and what you desire most!

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