Sex Tips & Advice

Vibrators For Anal Play!


By Lee & Jessica, Owners of DiskretAdultLife, Jan. 4th, 2019

Today you have hundreds of options when it comes to picking out a vibrator for anal penetration. Man or woman, the notion of anal play has grown bigger and bigger in today’s society. It appears, that even straight men have gotten over the fear of butt play to bring pleasure.

So, weather you are considering using a vibrator for anal or are an experienced anal player. This guide will show you all the options you have, what style, price, and categories are there in today’s market. This will help you pick something out that is best for YOU. It’s important to understand all bodies are different, and something that brings one-person non-stop full body prostate orgasms, might do nothing for the next person. Here is how you begin to understand the use of a vibrator for anal.

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Safety When Using A Vibrator for Anal Play:

First, I’d like to cover the basics around safety. DO NOT breeze over this, its very important to understand what to use, and how to use it.

Rule #1:

 Do not use a vibrator made for vaginal penetration and stick it in your anal cavity. Why? There are vibrators made specifically for anal play. These have safe guards on them that prevent the vibrator from going to far into your body. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not have a natural “stopper” and you could end up “losing” a vaginal vibrator in your anus. Yes, this has happened to people, and no the explanation at the ER wouldn’t be so funny…

Rule #2:

Use lube! I can’t stress this one enough, same as rule 1, it doesn’t matter if you’re a guy or girl, lube up that vibrator for anal and keep it lubed! The anus does not create it owns natural lube like the vagina. If you don’t lube your vibrator for anal, expect some discomfort, pain, and possible injury during insertion.

Keep in mind, not any lube is okay with any sex toy. If it’s a silicone sex toy, stick with water-based lubes. If its glass, steel, or crystal feel free to use any type of lube, but I suggest only using silicone-based lube if you plan on using it in, or underwater. This is because water-based lubes won’t last as long in water for obvious reasons… it just washes away.

Rule #3:

Never share your vibrator for anal play with your partner. Butt plugs and anal beads are not safe to transfer from one body to the next. This is because the bacteria in your anal cavity is specific to you, and you only. You could risk spreading a virus and making each other sick by sharing an anal sex toy.

If you feel that you must share it with your partner. Wash the anal toy between your use and your partners with a 10% bleach concentration, rinse with water, and let it air dry. Or stick a condom over it and put a new one on before your partner uses it.

Vibrator for Anal Play Categories:

Let me break down the main categories when it comes to anal play. You have butt plugs, anal beads, a vibrator for anal play, and a dildo for anal. It all really comes back to the same thing; is it safe to stick in your butt?

My rule of thumb is if the base is at least 1/3 the size of the largest inserted portion you should be okay. Now if you ever feel it starting to slip into the base end, obviously stop using that anal sex toy. But if the base is that large. You should easily be able to tell if you are starting to enter that “danger zone” that’s not supposed to be inserted.

Butt Plugs:

Butt plugs are typically designed with one flared base and a single larger diameter bulb on the other end. These are designed to slide in, and stay in. They can be worn for activities around the house (a form of foreplay and pleasure), during masturbation sessions, during sexual intercourse… The possibilities are endless making them extremely popular for pleasure.

Some butt plugs do vibrate as well. These are great for guys looking to stimulate their p-spot. Or ladies looking to add another variation of pleasure to the standard butt plug.

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The top things to consider when shopping for a butt plug that suits you are:

The size of the butt plug

If you are a beginner with anal play in general, you may want to stick with something basic to start. Something that has a smaller diameter, and easy to use. I highly recommend starting out with something like the Chrystalino Pin, or the Chrystalino Pleaser. These both are safe for anal play and have a slimmer diameter for beginners. Not only this they are cost effective for someone who might just be experimenting to start.butt plug

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If you are an intermediate to advanced anal play user… meaning you have enjoyed anal sex, anal fingering, or anal sex toys in the past. I highly suggest the HUGO by Lelo. This is the Mac-Daddy of all butt plugs. It has a remote controller for hands-free orgasms, waterproof, 72 different vibe combinations, and did I mention USB rechargeable that lasts for 2+ hours! I mean, what more could you ask for?!

Hugo butt plug

Or perhaps you want something sleek and sexy with a lot of weight and girth behind it. In that case, you’re looking for the Pure Plug 2.0 this thing weights an astonishing 1.3 lbs made from 100% stainless steel and polished to a luxurious (yet badass) mirror finish. Njoy is an amazing brand that forges some amazing sex toys. If you require that size for the “fullness” feeling and stimulation, nothing beats it.

Stainless Steel Butt Plug

The material of the butt plug

As with any anal sex toy, you should consider the material. It must be 100% body-safe. There are a lot of cheap knock-offs in this industry giving sex toys a bad name; by mixing silicone with other harmful additives just to make an extra buck. Make sure you have a trusted sex toy retailer, or really understand the manufacturing company behind the products you purchase. I hate to say it… but like most things, you get what you pay for!

A vibrator for anal play can come in all different types of material. Each brings its own positives and negatives. Here is what to expect with each type of material:

  • Silicone:

    Usually a less expensive product that offers the vibration features. They are typically more porous, so you have to really clean them well; if it offers a waterproof option it makes cleaning a whole lot easier. Some silicone is softer than others, really a trial and error thing based on different manufactures.

  • 100% Stainless Steel:

    These are sleek and sexy anal toys. They are true works of art. It’s not an easy manufacturing process to melt down stainless steel and die cast or forge it into something so spectacular. It takes a lot of hand polishing and manual labor to make these beauties. Since metal is a great conductor, expect it to be cold during initial insertion, however you can play with the temperature by running it under hot or cold water before hand.

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  • Glass:

    These typically look more like works of art than an actual product for pleasure. Similar to steel they require an artist. The diskret glass products are all blown by hand. The glass is then infused with real 24K gold… because that’s how we roll! Just make sure whatever glass sex toys you get they are premium glass that is body-safe material. Glass is not porous so its easy to clean, most are even dishwasher safe.

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  • Crystal/Stone:

    Crystal sex toys are rare. You need a specialty retailer or manufacture that carries them. But they are sleek, elegant, and classy. A lot offer healing solutions for different mental or physical stresses. Weather you are into that or not, nobody can deny the beauty of these sex toys.


  • The functions of the butt plug

When looking for any sex toy, the functions they offer are a big part in picking what suits you best. If you want a vibrator for anal play, think about how you would like to use it. Maybe you want to use it in the tub (requires waterproof), maybe you want to use it with a partner (look for dual ended or couple toy), you might want p-spot stimulation, or a remote control for hands-free orgasms.

Consider where, what, and how you plan to use your butt plug. Then make your final decision. Here is a list of every feature that can come with a vibrator for anal play:

  • Waterproof
  • Body-Safe
  • Hypo-Allergenic
  • Remote Controlled
  • Vibration Levels
  • Vibration Patterns
  • Single-Button (easy use)
  • Heating Options
  • Long Distance Control
  • Easy to Clean
  • USB Charging System
  • Warranty
  • Very Quiet
  • Dual Vibration Motors
  • Durable
  • Use with Any Lube

Anal Beads:

Anal beads are another great sex toy for anal play. These are a vibrator for anal play built from round sphere balls typically attached by some form of string. These balls gradually get larger in size until the handle end or stopper. As these balls are pushed in or pulled out of the anus, they give the user pleasure…a lot pleasure! They are best used if pulled out slowly right before or during climax. This will give the user a long, and intense orgasm compared to normal.

If you are just starting out in anal play, I suggest getting some beginner anal beads. They should be smaller in diameter, and slowly tapper in size. This allows you to stretch slowly over time, rather than all at once. Check out the Petite sensation strings by rocks off. These beads don’t even taper in size, you just receive more pleasure the deeper you go, plus they offer a bullet vibrator in the handle to give an entire new sensation!

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Perhaps you’re an intermediate or experienced anal sex player. If that’s the case, you might enjoy something more like the B-Vibe Triplet Beads. This toy offers a remote control for a hands-free orgasm and come fully loaded with all the features you could as for. The beads are fairly large in size, which is why I don’t recommend it for most beginners. Don’t say I didn’t warn you about the endless prostate orgasms it brings!

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Vibrator for Anal Wrap-Up:

Each and every person desire something different from their vibrator for anal. You might want anal beads, others might like butt plugs. The key is to experiment and try these things out for yourself. If your nervous… start with some solo masturbation sessions before taking it into bed with a partner. Start with beginner anal sex toys and work your way up from there… nothing about anal sex is a race! Keep the safety rules in mind and enjoy the endless pleasures that these vibrators bring!

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